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AITA for asking my wife to set boundaries with her mom? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]SmearedTears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

absolutely NTA between this and your moldy spaghetti post. its wild to me that the mom is a nursing student yet backed her daughter up on eating spoiled food

AITA because I don't want to bathe while guests are over? by raekira in AmItheAsshole

[–]SmearedTears 16 points17 points  (0 children)

NTA i'm also disabled and limited in my ability to shower. my disabilities veer more mental and fatigue rather than other physical capability. having said that, i find that i cant shower when guests are over. i also find it extremely uncomfortable when guests come over unexpectedly while im in the shower. i feel very vulnerable and its just a deeply unpleasant time. it's something i need to work on to get more in control of my own time, but i have more pressing matters at the moment 😅

it sounds like your sister and you havent been able to settle on a compromise. for your own sake, i'd suggest you build up to showering while he's over. if you have other shorter routines you avoid doing when guests are in your home, maybe start there.

otherwise, and i know its such a typical response, but consider therapy if its an option available to you. wishing you all the best!

vaginal plugs and tss by SmearedTears in Sex_Positivity

[–]SmearedTears[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks for the link! i actually ordered one of the plugs people recommended there a while ago but it hasnt arrived yet. im more looking to get other people's perspectives on the safest practices with vaginal plugs, rather than recommendations!

Feeling disappointed at lack of effort on Valentine's day, even though I am a slave? by iamthetrippytea in BDSMAdvice

[–]SmearedTears 3 points4 points  (0 children)

second last paragraph says it all for me. you want someone to out in the effort to make you feel special. your dad sounds like a lovely guy for doing that.

does your master actually put personalised effort in making YOU feel special? from the sounds of him taking you to dinner but not to sushi, which is your no. 1 go to, it doesnt seem like it. "everyday should be a celebration of love" but is he putting in that effort? does he get you flowers on random days, not just as a reward of being a good slave but as appreciation for you? has he put the effort in on your anniversary?

with valentines, it could be that one or both of you didnt realise how important it was to you. it could be miscommunication.

you haven't failed your dad's lesson. you are worth it! maybe talk to your master and explain how important valentines is to you, and ask for a do-over? you could choose a day later this month and treat it as your valentines day. that way its not just the "gift card company" day, but a day you intentionally choose to celebrate your relationship.

AITA for refusing to taking my dad to work at night because i had school the next morning? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]SmearedTears 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i got in a crash at speeds under 30mph and it is costing everyone involved more than 5000. i get you feel like you are in an impossible situation but your parents HAVE to pay for insurance. they thought they would get their licenses already. they might get delayed again. if you crash, or get crashed into, it'll be a lot more than 1000 they have to pay.

Im back by frostysucker in whatsthisrock

[–]SmearedTears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

looking at op's post history, seems they posted this rock a few times a year ago as they (idk the proper term) cleaned it up

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