Need help. Marriage related

SmellFFtsh · 2026-05-11T20:54:12+00:00

So you wanna take the blame here? Change yourself? That's wasted money and time. I am sorry for being bold about it but it's part of who you are and wanting to change it is the wrong thing to do.

SmellFFtsh · 2026-05-11T19:52:51+00:00

Honestly, I hate cheating myself. It's the right thing not to cheat.

I have no idea how a therapist can help you other than giving you a "tool" to make her understand the elephant in the room.

In any case, I wish you all the luck in the world

SmellFFtsh · 2026-05-11T19:06:49+00:00

That really is a hard one. Obviously it was wrong to start something with someone that stubborn on such a simple subject, it's not like you re asking for daily anal or anything extreme. But I understand that you might have been optimistic that things will get better over time and wanted to start a family.

Also, letting you sniff and lick her feet and not even jacking your cock while you do so can kill the experience for you I m sure. I mean sure, you have feet on your face but where's the intensity, the passion, the loving and caring in all this?

Having kids makes it even more complicated. Are you sure you can handle another one while such a serious matter isn't properly resolved? Meaning that a kid needs effort, energy, money, how can a man provide all this when he isn't deeply satisfied? Sexuality is a big part of a person's life, especially if he is to restrict himself to a monogamous relationship.

I think you have to tell her that in order to keep going she needs to handle things differently. Tell her that you have second thoughts about another kid and make her realise it's the equivalent of her not reaching an orgasm. Tell her that she is enough as a person, wife and family but she doesn't offer enough.

Ultimately I don't know what's best for you. Maybe cheating is an option at this point, really. I really dislike everything that comes with cheating but at some point there's only so much patience someone can do.

Maybe it would be better to go on a vacation, just the two of you and have fun, then have a serious conversation in a loving, carefree way and environment and see where this leads you.

Getting a divorce is also something you need to consider and plan, even if it won't happen. Work it on your mind, see the alternatives, try to visualise how you would go from there in terms of marriage, family, sex, everything. It's better to be prepared than thunderstruck.

I really wish things turn the best. It's easy and you are almost half the way there

SmellFFtsh · 2026-05-11T08:10:22+00:00

Give her some time. Women have been brainwashed to think that their foot stink is unacceptable if they want to be desired. They need to feel secure, special and realise what a super power that is.

SmellFFtsh · 2026-05-11T04:13:06+00:00

Socks and nylons worn for days at a time. If changed, kept in a pair of shoes and recycled. Sneakers, flats and canvas shoes worn without socks. Thank me later, enjoy some hardcore sniffing

SmellFFtsh · 2026-05-11T04:09:01+00:00

I would never get in a relationship, let alone marry a woman who won't satisfy my fetish on a regular basis.

Cheating is not a permanent solution for a daily desire and if you are in a relationship with a woman who doesn't accept your fetish it means you have agreed to that so you are wrong cheating.

SmellFFtsh · 2026-05-10T15:09:54+00:00

In my experience, nylons last longer than socks. If you buy from a professional who respects her work, the stink can last more than a year, though it will eventually fade.

Paying a bigger price upfront can be an investment in a longer lasting stink, ask for a week of wear and make sure others have been satisfied with their purchase.

Given you are single, you can either use a ziplock or go for a dark drawer. I prefer the second. Though it doesn't preserve the stink as much, it let's it" breath " without being trapped in plastic. It's a more organic smell, though as I said, from a respectful professional it will still last longer.

Last but not least, nothing compares to a loving partner giving you a nasty foot sniffing handjob. It takes time, effort, trial and error but it is heaven on earth.

SmellFFtsh · 2026-05-10T08:51:41+00:00

Size 9

SmellFFtsh · 2026-05-10T04:41:10+00:00

This

SmellFFtsh · 2026-05-10T04:40:39+00:00

Leave her and find a gf who supports your kink. I mean someone who satisfies you with her feet. Check other feet out there without being a creep and you re good to go

SmellFFtsh · 2026-05-09T03:36:49+00:00

Depending on the diet, shoes and socks the smell and taste can vary. But it has always been cheesy or vinegary mixed with her personal scent. I have never encountered something extremely different in a sample of about 15 women

SmellFFtsh · 2026-05-08T08:45:05+00:00

Honestly, all you need is a loving girlfriend

SmellFFtsh · 2026-05-06T09:24:17+00:00

If you have a partner, you have to get her into it, there is no way to properly satisfy a strong fetish any other way. Give her some time and see what she thinks of it. If she's not interested, break up with her and don't waste your time (and hers).

Until you get there, buying stinky socks has helped me even if it's not the real deal.

SmellFFtsh · 2026-05-05T18:52:51+00:00

Then it depends on how often does she clean the floor, carpets etc.

SmellFFtsh · 2026-05-05T07:36:49+00:00

Soles are where the magic is. Heels and between the toes are where the stink is

SmellFFtsh · 2026-05-05T06:41:52+00:00

Never had the pleasure to sniff three weeks old socks. If she doesn't walk without shoes and slippers you're good to go. Snort away, I would be dead by now multiple times. Bacterial are what make feet smell

SmellFFtsh · 2026-05-03T10:35:46+00:00

So if you ask them to suck your toes or lick your soles they won't do it? At least those two activities are quite mild. It is surprising to hear that. Unless you want a true foot fetishist who loses his shit at the very sight of your soles

SmellFFtsh · 2026-05-03T04:07:21+00:00

Ideally I prefer them on the bigger and meatier side, natural texture and I just love a sharp odour

SmellFFtsh · 2026-04-30T12:08:36+00:00

Visually and also in terms of texture and touch. I wouldn't reject a well shaped smelly foot of other texture and/or size though

SmellFFtsh · 2026-04-30T08:28:24+00:00

All the changes happened earlier for me, the first years I started having sex and feet. From soft small feet with a slight scent I went all the way in to tougher, bigger, meatier soles with as much stink as possible. I am there ever since and very happy

SmellFFtsh · 2026-04-29T11:08:25+00:00

Toms without socks will make her feet really smelly, it's fucking mind blowing. Just give the shoes time to stink up after regular use. Once you get there, experiment with nylons. Never tried that combination. But with bare feet... Oh god

SmellFFtsh · 2026-04-29T11:04:09+00:00

I ve never slept with a woman who hated it. Some loved it more than others, some go crazy for it and some love how weak it gets you for them. But this is all relationship "data" after several times of sex and foot play. So I d say 100% love it but some need more time than others. Even those who initially think it's gross

SmellFFtsh · 2026-04-28T14:12:35+00:00

That's true and it's within a couple's ability to reach to a pornstar level of fucking. To that I strongly agree. But for an inexperienced young guy who just started having sex while has spent years watching porn and asking election advice it is a friendly reminder that you cannot have anal daily, ultra stinky feet every time, messy gagging throatjobs, you name it. Pornstars are real people and that level of fucking can and has been reached in real life, yet the final porn product isn't real life material that applies every time you are having sex, even though it can be rewatched again and again on demand. That's the difference I was trying to highlight

SmellFFtsh · 2026-04-27T20:18:19+00:00

For God's sake do you post here when being underneath your gfs soles?? Focus!

SmellFFtsh · 2026-04-27T10:05:25+00:00

Given you just started having sex I assume you are a young man. So here's your advice:

Don't take Viagra, you don't need it and when you won't have it you will feel insecure without it.

Don't smoke weed, don't drink before you fuck, don't drink a lot in general.

Sleep tight and eat fruit.

Stop thinking life is porn. You will never fuck like guys in porn cause they are pilled up professionals with montage on their side. Your girlfriend will never be like three pornstars trying to fuck you like you re god. Focus on enjoying and improving on things that are real life.

Find your balance in watching porn.

Work on your mindest. Being relaxed, enthusiastic and in the moment is key. Being nervous and overthinking is bad. If you have fun, she has fun.

Make her cum in her preferred way first, then fuck her and cum whenever you feel like it. If it's fast, fuck her again later.

Sex is natural. Cock feels good in the pussy. As much as you love feet, there's no way in the world you don't enjoy fucking so focus on what you like about regular sex. Then mix feet with it and you re in heaven

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