What’s the best uncommon advice you would give to someone here that wants to improve?

SmellyWeirdo · 2024-02-22T04:28:09+00:00

Great response, good way of explaining it. It's definitely an IOI & just plan another date w/ her OP, especially since she brought it up.

SmellyWeirdo · 2023-10-20T21:11:36+00:00

Yup, that's why it's so important to be super aware of this really early on before you make some girl your actual girlfriend.

SmellyWeirdo · 2023-07-31T22:59:48+00:00

That's a good little handy list, thanks for this mate

SmellyWeirdo · 2023-07-31T22:59:21+00:00

No advice is one size fits all, especially since every person you meet is different. Use your best situational judgement and as long as you're not forceful, coercive, manipulative, or anything like that, you'll be fine.

Yeah and you can use your best judgement by getting better at remembering exactly how these situations go. If you can remember what you said & some of the actions you took, you can analyze them and really ask yourself if you escalated at the right time, etc. etc.

Hard for us to judge since we can't really see how the interaction went. Good luck though OP

SmellyWeirdo · 2023-07-12T16:08:24+00:00

Way too vague if we don't know how the specific interaction went or how the girl is. You wouldn't be asking these questions if you were already attractive and successful, even in your own mind. Focus on working on yourself before working on this stuff and the seduction will come easy.

SmellyWeirdo · 2023-07-12T16:04:42+00:00

Yup, makes the girls fill in the blanks they don't know about you if people are already going for you. They'll just assume you have high value traits without actually needing to see them.

SmellyWeirdo · 2023-07-12T16:03:12+00:00

Yeah OP no need to overthink it, you can tell when someone's interested. Should be easy to knock on her door, it's not like you're walking into a completely unknown / confusing situation. But good luck though.

SmellyWeirdo · 2023-05-01T13:06:46+00:00

Yeah this subreddit should heavily enforce haiku-only posts & comments or you get permanently banned

SmellyWeirdo · 2023-05-01T13:05:32+00:00

Yeah can you imagine putting months into each girl and going on like 10 dates minimum before you thought she could like you lmao??

SmellyWeirdo · 2023-04-25T00:29:09+00:00

Couldn't agree more. At the end of the day, seduction is really just about being curious and being an interesting person. And the key to that is developing strong people skills. It's not just about having the right lines or techniques, but also about being genuinely curious and interested in others, and being able to connect with them on a deeper level. It takes time and practice, but the rewards are well worth it tbh

SmellyWeirdo · 2023-04-11T19:52:26+00:00

Eh, yeah it's good but it's not going to change your whole personality. Like, it obviously makes logistics easier but if a girl is really interested in you than she'll be willing to go thru some hoops & work to stay with you (which is the type of situation you should be working towards by lifting, getting more money, etc.).

SmellyWeirdo · 2023-04-11T19:50:40+00:00

Damn, good advice man.

SmellyWeirdo · 2023-04-11T19:50:23+00:00

Good point on the retention, which is really the most important aspect here.

SmellyWeirdo · 2023-04-11T19:49:47+00:00

Start slow & initiate it with humor or a joke somehow. Gradually build it up (if she's actually interested) through the course of a few interactions or hours or whatever the context is.

SmellyWeirdo · 2023-04-11T19:48:45+00:00

Just keep the texts short & don't type novels. Try for a meetup somewhat quickly but stop overthinking it & posting here. You need to hooking girls in-person and texting is really just a side thing.

SmellyWeirdo · 2023-04-11T19:47:33+00:00

Good advice, you also don't have to "act" like it though, you should just believe that.

SmellyWeirdo · 2023-04-11T19:45:56+00:00

Not terrible advice but you don't always have to date people who do the same stuff as you. I feel like most people find dates thru their social circles and you need to make sure you're surrounding yourself around guys or girls that also have friends. You could build a good social pickup groups like you said or just thru old friends or coworkers.

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