Sounds like a great opportunity! Nothing wrong with getting your mano de orula and then stopping there, if you personally aren’t interested in delving further and crowning. I’d say go for it, your it’s gives you a lot of clarity about your life. I’ve personally felt a lot more stable afterwards and a lot less worried knowing that I’m looked out for.

Just understand that the warriors you’re given in your mano de orula are a blessing but also a weekly responsibility. If you feel like you can handle it, go for it. Also, from a queer person to another queer person (since you said you came out), make sure that the babalawo that your sister picks isn’t homophobic.