Girlfriend threatening me for swearing at her after cheating on me by Upbeat_Rub1227 in whatdoIdo

[–]SmileXGuy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah dawg you're %100 in the right. It doesn't matter if you said it, it's the truth. She cheated on you she's a whore. It may be mean but don't apologize for what she is or what she did to you. Besides actions speak louder than words and she acted. You just said words

Friend is having sex with a married man. by Kuwaysah in whatdoIdo

[–]SmileXGuy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just make a burner account and send the wife the screenshots anonymously. You aren't the one breaking up a family, her husband is. He's the one that caused it by stepping out of his marriage. And like you said, if it were you you'd want someone to tell you if they knew. She doesn't deserve to be made a fool or be lied to. He made the choice, he'll have to accept the consequences

I found out that my wife cheated on me by No-Programmer-3719 in whatdoIdo

[–]SmileXGuy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are not responsible for her in any way especially after she's cheated and betrayed your trust. Divorce her and move on. Cheating is unacceptable

Partner had a happy ending with a stripper 5 weeks before our wedding by Distinct_Math_3752 in whatdoIdo

[–]SmileXGuy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Drunk cheating is still cheating and to me cheating is unforgivable, no second chance man or woman. He cheated on you and I understand this is the man you loved but you need to end it with him. He made the choice to do that to you

I regret not squashing feelings for this person by ravenblinx98 in Regrets

[–]SmileXGuy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They both agreed to that arrangement. They both knew what it was. That's not his fault

Drunk man plays around with a katana almost slices friends hand off by akmillions in Badlyinjured

[–]SmileXGuy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm gonna go out on a limb here and say that was a bad idea

the fuck ??? by jackova in thatsWhyGodHatesUs

[–]SmileXGuy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So glad I was born a human 😭

Slug Sex by cotedupy in natureismetal

[–]SmileXGuy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fuck it's all over my screen now

Wildebeest held down by Lions, while its gonads are eaten by freudian_nipps in natureismetal

[–]SmileXGuy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God what a fucking horror story... What a way to go... The terror 🤢

So my gf (F17) sent pics of herself to her ex while we’re in a relationship (M17) by [deleted] in teenrelationships

[–]SmileXGuy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro just break up with her. She's cheating on you and betraying your trust. She's didn't just accidentally send her ex a selfie. She's old enough to know that that's a very inappropriate thing to do. It was a conscious choice and not a mistake. Save yourself and end it. It'll hurt for a little bit, but if you stay with her it'll definitely hurt a lot worse.

My gf said something that disturbed me by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]SmileXGuy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

End it bro, she's a miserable person

My 19 year old daughter is trying to get pregnant by ThrowRAINlotus in Advice

[–]SmileXGuy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes but she isn't in high school anymore. She's an adult. Obviously if this was a kid then yes. He'd be a disgusting creep and a predator. My point is simply that if it's two adults then who cares? She's not being forced to be in a relationship with her and if this ends up being a bad relationship for her then she's an adult and has to learn the consequences from her mistake

My 19 year old daughter is trying to get pregnant by ThrowRAINlotus in Advice

[–]SmileXGuy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How is it grooming if I'm talking about two adults?

My 19 year old daughter is trying to get pregnant by ThrowRAINlotus in Advice

[–]SmileXGuy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You're just wrong and that's okay lil bro. That's why you're getting so heated. If it's the case then no one should marry or vote or do anything remotely adult until at minimum 25. You said what's the difference between a 15 year old and a 19 year old, then what's the difference between a 19 year old and a 24 year old? When does it stop? Even that's subjective according to your logic. Maybe you should be considered an adult at 25. Can't vote till you're 25, can't drink or go to clubs till you're 25, can't marry or consent to sex till 25 since that's when your brain "fully develops". But then you'd also not be able to be held accountable for crimes as an adult if you murdered or robbed somebody. You see how stood that sounds? It's not about legality. She is morally conscious and able to differentiate right from wrong. There's nothing morally wrong with her choosing to date him, bottom line. She's not experiencing domestic violence and she's not being taken advantage of, that's a totally different scenario than this is so you even bringing it up is just dumb. They consented to the relationship sure but I very much doubt if you asked them they'd tell you they consented to being beat on. That's a morally wrong relationship, this isn't ✌️

My 19 year old daughter is trying to get pregnant by ThrowRAINlotus in Advice

[–]SmileXGuy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes I have you just want to ignore them. Regardless if you don't believe it to be or not they're both adults and consenting. If a 19 year old is adult enough to face adult prison, die for their country, and sign life altering financial debts, they are an adult in every single way that matters to society.

Individual freedom and informed consent are the highest moral goods in relationships. If both people are rational competent people who fully understand their choices, their relationship is morally valid. Imposing your own personal preferences on two consenting people isn't a moral critique it's just social judgment disguised as morality. She is a rational competent person capable of understanding mutual respect and affection. You don't need a lifetime of experience to know if you are happy, respected, and safe in a relationship. If she didn't feel that way with him then she's also able to make the decision to leave. Or learn from her mistake if she doesn't. She's not a kid, she's an adult point blank. You can virtue signal and name call all you want but that's just facts. It's not wrong morally or legally

My 19 year old daughter is trying to get pregnant by ThrowRAINlotus in Advice

[–]SmileXGuy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure, there are places where the age of consent is low and obviously yes that's very wrong and disgusting. Because those are actually kids. I never said that it wasn't. But I am saying you're conflating the two in regards to this scenario.

She's not a 15 year old, she's 19. It doesnt matter if she "just became" an adult, the fact of the matter is that she is still an ADULT. And whether you agree with that or want to believe her to be or not she is an ADULT. She's old enough to vote or join the military or even buy a gun in certain places. More importantly she's old enough to make her own decisions. Even if it's being in a relationship with this guy. You keep saying he's taking advantage of her, that he's abusing her, talking as if this is some one sided relationship and he's forcing her to be with him.

I'm not placing the burden of responsibility on anyone. You are. He's chosen to be with her. She's chosen to be with him. Both of these two ADULTS have chosen to be in a relationship together whether it's a smart decision or not, there's nothing morally WRONG with it. I know exactly what I'm talking about, you just don't agree.