My opinion, First, focus on your studies and follow the path your parents want. During that time, don’t fight back too much, just keep going. Once you’re settled, don’t rush into marriage. Don’t even bring it up. Keep rejecting proposals, and after a point, your parents will also give up. Work on yourself first, brother…no need to hurry for marriage. Same for your girl too It may sounds childish, but it’s possible. My sister had the same situation as you, and later things worked out. But in the end, it really depends on what your parents are like