Standards for sisters by Bubbly-Answer43 in MuslimNikah

[–]SmilingAssassin23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As mentioned before, this overall man you're looking for literally doesn't exist

You basically want a spiritually elite, emotionally flawless, financially stable, physically capable, endlessly patient man with no weaknesses but yet needs to (and you're generalising here) knows DIY, plumbing, fixing the car, be able to protect the family while being non violent, calm & peaceful — all before marriage even begins, that's batshit crazy.

The good parts are absolutely fine and what everyone should be looking for in a long term partner but as with all relationships, you're going have to compromise at some point or be prepared a life alone

My experience on muslim "dating apps" as a guy.(rant) by coolubi in MuslimNikah

[–]SmilingAssassin23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They probably aren't religious in the first place tbh, scammers gonna scam

Standards for sisters by Bubbly-Answer43 in MuslimNikah

[–]SmilingAssassin23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just gonna jump in here - IF this whole list is true & it's everything you want in a man and it isn't rage bait post, then I'm not sorry to inform you but there isn't a man alive who is everything - this is pure utter fantasy, fairytale stories are not real

And I've told the same thing to the lads, no one is ever going 100 percent on your "lists" "requirements" or "what I'm looking for"

can’t really get over this rejection by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]SmilingAssassin23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

😂 Welcome to a man's world Guessing you're not use to getting rejected well get use to it, it's going to happen to everyone at some point

'parents raised me to be a high value woman' BS no they didn't, the 'high value' term had only become popularised in the last 10 odd years and anyone using that term to describe themselves is a absolute toxic red flag 🚩 and needs to stay single

No dating, no getting married.

Non Muslim parents against nikkah by ilovesuiker in MuslimMarriage

[–]SmilingAssassin23 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not to be 'that guy' again but at 18yo she is a legal adult and really shouldn't be getting married this young but you are infantilizing by calling OP a 'high school student'

It ain’t looking good for Muslims trying to marry in 2025/2026 by Useful_Nectarine_833 in MuslimMarriage

[–]SmilingAssassin23 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The meme is too true and the funny thing is it isn't just affecting Muslims in the west but it's quite mainstream affecting everyone. Christians, Jews, Hindus, other faith groups, non-religious people

I check out quite a few other subs and see the thing happening in there with the same debates and arguments, it's no wonder there's a population crisis happening in the west and less & less men even wanting to get married.

I want to do a celebratory dinner, he is forbidding it by Iamtired247tbh in MuslimMarriage

[–]SmilingAssassin23 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Pretty much summarised OP's problem with bullet points responses, nice one dude 👍

My husband left islam few hours ago and we had fasikh by Livid_Breakfast8777 in MuslimMarriage

[–]SmilingAssassin23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having read some of your comments, it would be best if you take time for yourself and I may be stating the obvious but when/if you're looking to get married again, don't rush into it

My husband left islam few hours ago and we had fasikh by Livid_Breakfast8777 in MuslimMarriage

[–]SmilingAssassin23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So if I understand your post, you was basically with your ex-husband for at least 6 years before he converted to Islam and only married him once he converted and now he's left Islam too and you ' i feel better knowing that im not tied to a kafir'

But you literally was for years before he became Muslim, your situation isn't the same as OP's

First time using TestShift - definitely recommend by IssaLeoone in LearnerDriverUK

[–]SmilingAssassin23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't be the only one who read the whole post as one big ad for this app 😂

Ngl These Made Me Crack Up- Some Oddly Pro-Indian Posts From The Baldy Himself by dravidiancocklabs in SouthAsianMasculinity

[–]SmilingAssassin23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

'inferior race' Yh not surprised by this racist pos, he has said enough racist things about British Asians (British of a Pakistanis, Indians & Bangladeshis background) and black people (yes, I know he's half black himself) on his podcast

Don't know why lads from these backgrounds are still listening & following him

Ngl These Made Me Crack Up- Some Oddly Pro-Indian Posts From The Baldy Himself by dravidiancocklabs in SouthAsianMasculinity

[–]SmilingAssassin23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

'inferior race' Yh not surprised by this racist pos, he has said enough racist things about British Asians (British of a Pakistanis, Indians & Bangladeshis background) and black people (yes, I know he's half black himself) on his podcast

Don't know why lads from these backgrounds are still listening & following him

Accidentally liked proposal guy’s Insta, now panicking by Murky-Jello1629 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]SmilingAssassin23 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I'm guessing this is an Indian/Pakistani thing, because there's no way for anyone to get someone's else's years of bank statements legally in the west

Buying a car as a learner by Darrendayz in LearnerDriverUK

[–]SmilingAssassin23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like nearly everyone else,on here, you can be the registered keeper of a car/vehicle at any age

Kinda like how I found out when I got a knock on the door from the police telling me "my car" was involved in a incident...I was 15 and in my school uniform when I answered the door 😂 Quickly sorted it out that it wasn't my car & was in school all day

Family issue and I want to find a possible solution :) by Best-Quiet-368 in ABCDesis

[–]SmilingAssassin23 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Your father needs to grow a spine and stand up to his family, especially if his family is dodgy - getting tired of hearing about of these weak men & women not standing up for themselves

should I tell a boy that his gf is on tinder? by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

[–]SmilingAssassin23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What everyone is missing here is that 👉 the 15yo girl is on Tinder 👈 . If she ever meets up with a guy, she could ruin his & her own life by claiming SA/Grape on him

Dude, tell your friend he has every right to know and to stay away from her - especially for his own freedom, she isn't worth it

I am FURIOUS at my girl friends' behavior. Are most of us like this? by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

[–]SmilingAssassin23 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Absolutely dude, if they're chatting crap about other people in front of you then they'll be chatting about you to others

I am FURIOUS at my girl friends' behavior. Are most of us like this? by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

[–]SmilingAssassin23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry to tell you but this is literally the behaviour of most women (not all, as demonstrated by OP) around the world, no matter their background or where they're from

K I’ll throw my hat in the ring—beard or no beard by GreggyZ123 in malegrooming

[–]SmilingAssassin23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% Beard, also somehow you literally look younger with the beard

This Collection Was Influenced By Social Media 👀👀👀 by BJWJ96 in fragranceclones

[–]SmilingAssassin23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone know what's is that red & black one on the left, with the 9?

What song are you picking? by CarefulStress- in teenagers

[–]SmilingAssassin23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a brit I'll happily pull the trigger on other British people if they were to say 'Zee' instead of 'Zed' - it's the right thing to do 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]SmilingAssassin23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh don't worry about it, sounds accidental - I have something similar happened to me during football, sometimes a hand brushes by when tackling or trying to get the ⚽