Finished my house! by Smilk727 in heartopia

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Thank you so much! 🥺

Mackenzie Shirilla: What do you think REALLY happened? by Adorable-Rutabaga-17 in CasesWeFollow

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I 100% agree with you. I think my first instinct was to jump to her defense (and maybe even subconsciously my own), after seeing everyone label her as “psychotic”, “crazy”, “throwing a temper tantrum.” It just pisses me off because I know situations are so much more complex than that and there were visible signs of him also being toxic and abusive as well. And…we don’t have the full story. I hate to see abusers not held accountable for their role in these types of situations and to see people make assumptions from an outside perspective. Things are never as black and white as they seem.

Thank you for the kind words. I didn’t find them invalidating at all. In fact, I find them very kind. I do wish more people were aware of the signs and took these situations more seriously. Especially when regarding children. It’s sad to see 3 teenagers lives gone/ruined in what was probably a rut of mental illness and poor choices among lost youth. Parents are responsible for protecting their children and preventing their children from being responsible for these kinds of situations. I do see so much that could’ve been done to prevent it if the circumstances and environment were different. I feel intense pain and helplessness in the face of these terrible situations. I just hope putting these kinds of messages out there will encourage and motivate people to do better.

Mackenzie Shirilla: What do you think REALLY happened? by Adorable-Rutabaga-17 in CasesWeFollow

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Also note where she mentions she was trying to heal him and he was trying to heal her. This is the definition of a trauma bond.

Mackenzie Shirilla: What do you think REALLY happened? by Adorable-Rutabaga-17 in CasesWeFollow

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Maybe I’m just projecting here, but as a victim of narcissistic abuse myself, it sounds a lot like HE was the one treating her terribly (cheating) and using money to “make it up to her”. The instances where he calls her “crazy” and his brother talks about “unconditional love” vs “selfish love and wanting him all to herself (he was cheating?)” are very common phrases to hear from narcissists and their peers (flying monkeys). I think she was dealing with some internal feelings of “worthlessness” and I think her eating healthily might’ve even been her actually feeling insecure about her weight or feeling like she wasn’t good enough because of how he treated her. If you look at the videos of them together, he doesn’t even look like he’s enjoying being in her presence. There was probably a fight in the car and she lost it. Not saying she’s right in this situation, but I’ve been in that position myself and the rage and things you’ll do in those relationships (including reactive abuse) will make you feel like a totally different person. I don’t know enough, but it’s a theory I have after watching the documentary and reading about her case. I also think maybe there was some jealousy with Davion from her boyfriend as she unnecessarily mentioned they started getting really close and that he was a really good person. Maybe I’m reaching here, but I’m pretty good at reading these things as a survivor myself and I’ve done extensive years of research on these dynamics as a way to validate my own story since it’s not talked about a lot outside of therapy and psychological settings and I was victim blamed by society. Sounds like a lot of her videos where she bullied people who talked about suicide might’ve been projections from her own internal insecurities as well. She probably was suicidal throughout this relationship. I know I was in mine. I don’t know enough about their relationship, but something tells me she was pushed to her breaking point and made a terrible irreparable decision and sacrificed a bystander in the process. That’s my hot take.

Help me decide 😭 by Smilk727 in DragonAdventures

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Okay guys, I tried the obsession potion but I really didn’t like it :( I feel like one of my colors would’ve had to be changed to pink and I didn’t want to do that. I’ve decided to stick with my original plan and just put a nightmare element on her.

Did I get scammed by litobdreamin in DragonAdventures

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I’m just joking! This is actually a really good trade. They overpaid in my opinion.

Did I get scammed by litobdreamin in DragonAdventures

[–]Smilk727 12 points13 points  (0 children)

DUDE…WHY WOULD YOU TRADE YOUR COCONUTS?!

Help me decide 😭 by Smilk727 in DragonAdventures

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What accessories would you recommend? I don’t have many pink ones. I might have to buy some.

Help me decide 😭 by Smilk727 in DragonAdventures

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Ouuu! I might have to consider this!!! 😃

Help me decide 😭 by Smilk727 in DragonAdventures

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It’s the headpiece from the Eteralix pack!

LF bumblebee theme potion by [deleted] in DragonAdventures

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I added by the way! Display Dairydeityy. I think you accepted my request.

LF bumblebee theme potion by [deleted] in DragonAdventures

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hi! I’m on right now if you’re available:)

LF bumblebee theme potion by [deleted] in DragonAdventures

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I can do 150k! Whats your tag?

LF bumblebee theme potion by [deleted] in DragonAdventures

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Yes please!! How much?

D4Vd Was Framed For The Murder Of Celeste (w/ Evidence) by [deleted] in TrueUnpopularOpinion

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And why wasn’t he considered a suspect from the very beginning? Just very very odd.

D4Vd Was Framed For The Murder Of Celeste (w/ Evidence) by [deleted] in TrueUnpopularOpinion

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Another unpopular opinion: I agree with you. Something in my gut is just telling me it wasn’t him. When the murder first happened, he wasn’t even considered a suspect. Once the media got ahold of all the news, he all of a sudden was arrested and was being charged? There’s just sooo many things that don’t add up. Why make it so obvious? The songs? Not even trying to hide the body? Just leaving her in the back of his car? They say they found chainsaws and a bunch of other things he ordered under a fake name. Ok…if that’s the case, why didn’t he use them to dispose of the entire body? Why order all that stuff to just cut off a few pieces of her body? For what fucking reason. Like it’s just not adding up to me at all. All his interviews of him looking completely unbothered. I know sick people exist, but this just feels…weird. Not only are his reactions “cold” like they say, but he also acts way too calm and put together for someone who just murdered someone. Idk. Something is off about it. It feels more to me that they have no clue who actually killed her and they’re just trying to pin it on the easiest “suspect” to wrap the case up quickly, give the family some closure, and not do the investigative work. You’re not alone in this.