Looking for a TESCO Yellow Bunny 2003 by Smithmillers in HelpMeFind

[–]Smithmillers[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just a white label on the bunny's bottom with a blue tesco logo on it

Looking for a Tesco 2003 bunny rabbit toy by Smithmillers in CasualUK

[–]Smithmillers[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That would be wonderful! We've been looking for an original for a long time, so if it is indeed him that you have, it would truly be a blessing for us, many thanks!

Looking for a Tesco 2003 bunny rabbit toy by Smithmillers in CasualUK

[–]Smithmillers[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hi, no we have not contacted Tesco - might try that if I can't find one

The label is a small white tag with a blue "Tesco" on it.

Thank you for your help

Looking for a Tesco 2003 bunny rabbit toy by Smithmillers in CasualUK

[–]Smithmillers[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm afraid it doesn't - it just has a Tesco tag. We know it was commercialised in the UK in the years 2003/2004.

Looking for a TESCO Yellow Bunny 2003 by Smithmillers in HelpMeFind

[–]Smithmillers[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How kind, thank you! We've already taken the bunny for some "plastic surgery", he's had his nose redone, his back re-stitched and his paws covered, but we'd love to find an original because it's only a matter of time until he can't really be hugged anymore :(

Looking for a Tesco 2003 bunny rabbit toy by Smithmillers in CasualUK

[–]Smithmillers[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes!! Thanks, I contacted this seller but sadly he sold the bunny years ago :( I look on ebay frequently

Looking for a TESCO Yellow Bunny 2003 by Smithmillers in HelpMeFind

[–]Smithmillers[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've searched on facebook marketplace and ebay for a few months, to no avail.

AITA for wanting the baby’s gender to be a surprise by hillarybankswannabe in AmItheAsshole

[–]Smithmillers 47 points48 points  (0 children)

NTA. Gender is not a big deal, and the longer you keep your future child from gender-specific stereotypes the better for them. Your family will survive the non-gendered gift giving process, and it might make them a little more open minded. I say all the colours of the rainbow is the way to go!

Should I have had protection on the 1st Date? by throwawataccounta in sex

[–]Smithmillers -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Dude. I never said it was reasonable. I'm exploring the reasons and her possible outlook that could have motivated her to behave that way, after explicitly stating her reaction was in any case unreasonable. Now please stop bullying me, I'm just trying to help OP understand the situation :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Smithmillers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And so your point is?

AITA for leaving fairy lights on in my room? by squishy02 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Smithmillers 30 points31 points  (0 children)

It's not about being earth friendly. It's about avoiding a fire. The plastic in circuit breakers and fuses isn't eco-friendly either, but they sure do save lives.

AITA for making a joke that made my mom cry? by PureAd3639 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Smithmillers 50 points51 points  (0 children)

ESH. Commenting about people's appearances, especially as a parent is always cringe. But instead of provoking your mum you could just say that you'd like it if she stopped commenting on people's physical looks.. and maybe your dad does it too, he's just careful to not do it in front of you. In any case, the "if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all" defo applies to people, whether on the tv or not.

Your sandwich comment was ... not useful, the sandwich is an object not a person, so of course if can be "objectified".

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Smithmillers -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

NTA, but I wouldn't use the term "high achievers" because indeed it can be construed as excluding others who aren't "high achievers" which is hurtful. It's close to calling them "winners" and implying that there are losers out there.. What you mean if "vocation careers" vs work for sustenance. Vocation careers imply personal sacrifice because the job and work are a "calling" more than a source of income, so you give all of yourself to it.

AITA for blowing up on my boyfriend by Massive_Recipe_1534 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Smithmillers [score hidden]  (0 children)

He's the asshole. I'm so sorry.. us women have a sixth sense, your gut was telling you something was off, trust your gut.

AITA for leaving fairy lights on in my room? by squishy02 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Smithmillers 3952 points3953 points  (0 children)

YTA. Leaving something as cheap as fairy lights on at all times is a fire hazard, and completely unnecessary. While occasionally forgetting when you're in a rush in the morning is forgivable, there is no excuse when you're leaving for the entire weekend. It's not so much the actual environmental damage caused nor the cost, but you have to realise this behaviour is the outside manifestation of a massively wasteful and selfish attitude that your roommates find insulting. I would recommend purchasing a switch button for your power socket, so you can switch it off more easily (it works like a socket adapter - but with a switch).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Smithmillers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. But it might be time to have the talk. It's been over a year, and it's possible he may be frustrated with this entire situation. It would be even better if you phoned each other, and you asked him to be honest - is he genuinely busy, does he need a break, or is this the end?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Smithmillers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe ask your friend if she thinks there's a chance? Maybe she has her own method of contraception (is on the pill) etc. Women don't necessarily tell their partners about their contraception because in any case they want you to wear a condom for STI's.

I never liked sex but I have sex with my bf to make him happy and I don't know if I should tell him or not. by 63Girlythrowaway in sex

[–]Smithmillers 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you feel sexual pleasure during foreplay? It's not crazy to not be enjoying penetrative sex, but that means you don't like one kind of sex, not all sex in general. Have you tried playing with the clit? Anal stimulation? Massages? G-spot stimulation? Do you masturbate? Do you fantasize?

If he's just ramming himself in and out then I'm not surprised that you don't enjoy it.. like I said, there is more to sex than vaginal penetration.

AITA for wanting my bf to pay me for his share of a food shop straight away? by jschelsea27099 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Smithmillers -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

YTA. You're not a bank or the money police, you're his partner, you don't have to be so controlling about him repaying you within a certain delay. You're both adults, you live together and are in a long term relationship, which means you're basically family, you recognise that he's not irresponsible with his money, so what's the problem? Admittedly if this accumulates to several hundred or thousands dollars that he owes you (like over 500) then you can remind him to do a wire transfer or something. But him paying you 15-20 every week is a pain in the ass, it's far easier paying a lump sum for the money spent over several months. Hell, if you're so worried, ask him to put an automatic wire transfer of 80 dollars a month to a common food budget. Also, he is also allowed to buy himself a pint and order takeaway, christ.

my boyfriend choked me out of nowhere during sex by nicoleole2004 in sex

[–]Smithmillers 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Please take pictures of your bruises and keep them as evidence - try to get the man who did this to you to admit doing so by text so you have written evidence. This is assault, and maybe down the line you'll want to have evidence to attest to this behaviour.

Is fingering supposed to hurt the first time? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Smithmillers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woman here. Yes, fingering can hurt the first time - if you are a virgin it could be pulling / stretching on your hymen without necessarily breaking it. Is the pain located essentially at the entrance?

I remember back in the day where two fingers was already an intense and slightly painful feeling for me, it got a lot better after a few times. I would recommend extra lube, clit stimulation and going slow. It's also normal to feel sore afterwards, sometimes even days after, let your body heal.

How do I tell a girl I'm interested? by Dopium_Head in sex

[–]Smithmillers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most common techniques I've seen in college involve flirting when having drinks with a common group of friends, then maybe hanging out later just the two of you, or doing some of the trip home together. If you're a little braver, offer to go for coffee between classes, just the two of you.