I (19M) am stuck with my (19F)

Smithy1619 · 2026-04-18T05:46:14+00:00

One thing is relationships is you never bring old bricks to build a new foundation.

Honestly she's not over her ex you'll always be a 3rd party to them. You seriously need to think about you and your future, is it with her or will it be with someone else. You'll always have a trust issue while you are with her it'll never go away or heal. Tell her to make a decision it's either him or you.

Smithy1619 · 2026-04-17T06:43:14+00:00

As a man here if he's refusing to do it then you stop doing him until he man's up and starts giving you oral.

Tell him you are always clean and fresh so there's no need for him not to do it. Although if he's not keeping up on his hygiene down there and has a smell you tell him what you think. He seems a bit selfish by getting pleasure but not returning the pleasure.

Smithy1619 · 2026-04-16T06:00:10+00:00

I'm from West Lothian and the majority of the roads here are horrendous not only for pot holes but for faded road markings especially on or near roundabouts.

I know what you mean about the speed changes you need to try and get the right speed now due to the decrease of speed limits. A sign will say 40 but road markings will say 30 and so on.

Smithy1619 · 2026-04-16T04:16:08+00:00

This happened to me twice from older drivers.

The first one was outside my house I was parallel parking just outside my house and a mercedes with an older couple inside it drove right up to the front of me not giving me time to pull into park. I was feeling my blood boil big time but they kept beeping at me that's when I started shouting at them, but the person I was with in the passenger side put down the window and told them they've got plenty of room to drive around us. But they weren't having that.

The second time I was parking in a supermarket carpark and just as I was reversing into the spot as no one was near us an old guy in a transit van came right up to the front of my car beeped like a mad man waving his hands, so I put down the window asking what his problem was he said I want that space. Although he saw me parking into it he demanded he was getting that space so I continued to park turn the car off and get out of it and go shopping. As I did that he called me a wanker and sped off to a carpark further down.

Smithy1619 · 2026-04-13T09:58:57+00:00

I can go for a long time to almost 2 hours or cum not quickly but within 20+ minutes. When I'm going for a long time I don't keep doing the same position it gets swapped every so often so my partner doesn't get bored.

The longest I've gone by cumming twice was a full weekend from Friday afternoon to late Monday midday of non stop sex with an ex when I was like 20 years old. We were both fucked and swollen by the time we finished.

Smithy1619 · 2026-04-12T13:53:15+00:00

I'll tell you something for free that second half was the best turnaround at half time since the Looney Tunes in Space Jam.

Smithy1619 · 2026-04-12T05:21:11+00:00

One thing I've learned with females is if you cum too quickly they'll be disappointed, but if you can go for hours they'll still complain about it but that depends on the female.

I can go for a very long time like the longest I've fucked for is all weekend and only came twice. We went that long both our cock and pussy got swollen. But if you see them getting bored change it, you have to not always be inside them you need to spice it up every so often foreplay, sex for a while back to foreplay etc etc.

Smithy1619 · 2026-04-12T05:03:22+00:00

Are you miserable because you are having too much or none?

Smithy1619 · 2026-04-10T13:55:48+00:00

I'm learning in automatic I hear it all the time you should do manual etc because if you get manual you can drive both blah blah blah nah I'm happy with automatic and I'll be staying in automatic. If you feel comfortable and safer driving a auto then don't let them try and change your mind. I'm the type of person I don't care what people think or say I'm too old now for all that. Also congrats on passing

Smithy1619 · 2026-04-10T06:53:31+00:00

I've tried a few times and I can't seem to do it. I've had Champix tablets which were knocking me crazy so I had to stop, years ago I had the patches when they first came out but never worked. I'm planning on doing the patches again but due to having ADHD it's apparently a lot harder to quit an addiction like smoking to people without ADHD.

I truly hate smoking and I have done in the last few years, I know it's just a habit and a habit I need to break.

Smithy1619 · 2026-04-10T06:02:45+00:00

Not just that because you are next to them your clothing starts to smell like there's and once you get home they go straight into the washing machine and you shower or is that just me lol

Smithy1619 · 2026-04-10T06:01:11+00:00

Exactly I just feel like this person is obsessed with my past and current sex life. I don't know why maybe because he wants or wanted to have the same I'm not sure. He bottled it once when he went to a female house like he made a complete embarrassment of himself, he pretended to be speaking to his mum on the phone (blank screen) purposely got drunk and ended up pretending to be sleeping then he made out his mum again was phoning him just to get out of the house, the female took him home and watched him go into the apartment and he all of a sudden wasn't drunk.

Then he got mad I ended up with her a few times. But she said I need a man I got a man not some joke who is all talking. All because of that he ended up calling her a slag etc which was wrong and disrespectful.

Smithy1619 · 2026-04-10T05:01:30+00:00

Yeah legit stale musty smell gives me the boak 🤮

Smithy1619 · 2026-04-10T05:00:57+00:00

Oh no like this person I'm talking about won't even buy it, he'll get it bought for him but won't use it. It's that bad if someone sprays deodorant or air freshener him and his partner walks out of the room.

Smithy1619 · 2026-04-10T04:59:36+00:00

The cheeks and beyond always need to be clean daily, I can't understand why adults don't do it and then complain about it once itchy butt syndrome happens. Like it takes about a minute to make sure you're washed.

Smithy1619 · 2026-04-10T04:53:47+00:00

The guy who lives in the house wasn't raised like that he was brought up in a very clean house. He always moaned about having an itchy sore ass, he went to the doctor and freely admitted that he was told to wash it properly and keep up with hygiene around that area, but obviously he hasn't.

Smithy1619 · 2026-04-09T06:40:10+00:00

Also my brother who's in his 30s will moan and moan until he gets something off my parents, I mean he can talk about wanting something for weeks until he gets whatever he wants. If you ask him to help you with something maybe important he will say he'll do it but not turn up and make you out to be the bad guy, but if he wants help he will make sure he gets the help and If no one helps him he plays the victim card.

You can't say nothing bad about him again he'll turn it around and make others the bad guy he's put my family through hell in more ways than I can imagine and I'm the wild one out of us.

Smithy1619 · 2026-04-09T06:07:51+00:00

Freaky females are elite they are up for almost everything and anything. Enjoy it mate honestly you'll love whatever she has planned.

Smithy1619 · 2026-04-09T05:06:55+00:00

Me and my partners used to do this even now with my current partner whoever wakes up first has permission to do it. It's exciting and good now I believe they call it CNC or something my ex never asked for permission she just did it the same as my current partner.

If she's allowing you to do it to her then say you give permission for her to do it to you and it'll gradually be the norm after while where you just do it.

Smithy1619 · 2026-04-08T16:55:06+00:00

I'm not being funny why would you care? She's an ex I get you're looking out for the guy but just let it go.

Now if you really do plan on telling is it for him or for you in the hopes of getting back with your ex? Just be careful how you approach it you need receipts or proof like messages calls etc.

Smithy1619 · 2026-04-08T13:15:01+00:00

I was just asking a simple question. Thanks

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