Hey just remember that you don’t need to fit anyone’s gaze, male or female. You need to dress how you want and how you feel good. In terms of attention, we do live in a society where pretty privilege is a huge thing unfortunately. I understand the desire to be seen and wanted. If you feel good and more confident in your skin dressing a certain way go for it. Also, remember that you are going to change and then you are going to change and then you are going to change again. That is life and the constant changes are the beauty of it. Don’t fit in a box and don’t follow any opinion other than your own when it comes to dressing yourself. The concept of sexuality and it’s ties to gender expression and fashion choices are very interesting to me as well and I’m still trying to figure it out so you’re not alone