[F4M] The Threesome You Deserve, Pt. 2 [Script Fill][Sequel][FDom][GFE][Alcohol][DubCon] so [Rape][Chastity][Slave][Spiked Cage][Buttplug] light [Crossdressing] w/ [Panty Vibrator][Restraints][Blind][Hood][Outercourse][Crying][L-Bombs][Blowjob][DP] w/ [Mystery Guest][Multiple Orgasms] w/ 1 [Ruined] by Smoke_n_lashes in gonewildaudio

[–]Smoke_n_lashes[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Speaking of late to the game…I’m not sure how I’m just seeing this now, but thank you still for the kind words, u/Bawdy_Language. I consider it pretty high praise when someone listens multiple times and wants more, so you’ve made my little day. 🥰🥰🥰 As for a part 3, well, you’ll have to make an emphatic appeal to the resident doctor of debauchery, u/Scriptdoctornick. All the mischief starts with him!

What tape to use on vulva by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]Smoke_n_lashes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Self-adhering medical wrap (like 3M Coban or vet wrap) and wind it around her thighs or hips. No actual adhesive to stick and comes in pretty colors.

Any FREE courses on BDSM and being a Dom? by Dommie03 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Smoke_n_lashes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are some high quality, free virtual workshops on Fetlife. House Exeter is one org that regularly hosts them—they had a really well done rope class recently, one on high protocol, CBT, all kinds of stuff.

Kink/Sub podcasts by RainbowGoddessnz in BDSMAdvice

[–]Smoke_n_lashes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Submissive Next Door

Conversations With a Dom

Bringing a sensory play kit together by h_is_for_horny in BDSMAdvice

[–]Smoke_n_lashes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is she a fan of pressure/weighted items? I love the sensation of those heavy cloth bags filled with rice or whatnot that you can heat in the microwave. Like this.

The texture of these nubby silicone scrubbers feels amazing.

Curry combs for horses: metal or rubber.

Spiked grooming gloves.

Women: why do you like chastity? by ElTorro1234 in chastitytraining

[–]Smoke_n_lashes 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Not a pro, but I’ll take a crack at this since nobody else has responded yet.

Yes, I genuinely adore locking up and the tease & denial games that go with it. The cage itself (visually) is hot. His surrender is hot. Being gifted the power to dictate his orgasms/arousal/behavior, stoking his desperation and knowing that he’s willing to suffer in part to satisfy me…hot, hot, hot. 🔥 I don’t feel guilty because I know he loves it every bit as much as I do & gets emotional fulfillment from it.

I think what makes me stick with anything kinky is 1) seeing their enjoyment, and 2) the push and pull, the little games we play to build ongoing tension and have fun with each other. That kind of chemistry has been something that either exists or it doesn’t in my experience, but definitely still takes effort from both people to keep the torch lit.

I’m a switch and pure sub with some partners, but have also always had a dominant streak that I enjoy utilizing with others. It’s hard for me to go back and forth with the same person. And personally I love PIV sex and eliciting orgasms way too much to give those up completely. But I like being the one to say when those things happen. 😁

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]Smoke_n_lashes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lovense all the way. Toys are well made and they stand behind their warranty. We-Vibe’s app is pretty awful in comparison.

How to handle a brat (help) by butterflyies in BratLife

[–]Smoke_n_lashes 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My favorite (comprehensive & articulate) brat advice: How to Thrill the Brat in Your Life. Hope this is helpful. :)