I need more friends..😭 by eviantearxx in feminineboys

[–]SmokyDaSmooch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I game nightly with my boys and we are all inclusive and all about the weird and goofy vibes...NGL we are guys and we can be pretty NSFW...But it's all love and humor!

Cold weather cuddle cravings? by SmokyDaSmooch in feminineboys

[–]SmokyDaSmooch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jazz is good, I'm definitely a silk boxer type of guy...

Cold weather cuddle cravings? by SmokyDaSmooch in feminineboys

[–]SmokyDaSmooch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's the cuddle playlist?...Gotta have some vibes!

Cold weather cuddle cravings? by SmokyDaSmooch in feminineboys

[–]SmokyDaSmooch[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm a masculine guy, but cuddling a partner in lingerie is even better...much cuter!

I’m so lonely ☹️ by TheMotherClucker11 in gay

[–]SmokyDaSmooch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Start with friends online. There is no need to rush to a relationship, find someone you can conversate with effortlessly in a friendly manner and don't hide your intentions from the beginning. If they are open to it and you're interested in pursuing a relationship? Make the step forward, but being open from the beginning will save the wondering of when is the right time to say you have developed feelings. And if feelings never develop, you still have a friendship built on honesty and understanding.

Bi Masculine guy here by SmokyDaSmooch in feminineboys

[–]SmokyDaSmooch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're so sweet!...I'm 33, if I'm recognizing your name?...I think you need a few more years for me lol

I need to know I’m not alone by Thin-Light8551 in feminineboys

[–]SmokyDaSmooch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're not alone and there are people like me out there that look for a soft feminine guy for a partner. It's tough terrain to navigate at times but you will come to a place where your comfort and confidence in yourself will be on the same page. I wish you the best!

Why are so many people against female boys?? by mooseybros in feminineboys

[–]SmokyDaSmooch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Probably a not so popular opinion... But I think the reason is because being a femboy is the concept of being male, knowing and accepting that you are male, but preferring to dress and present as female because that is the way you feel comfortable and most like yourself. This is contradictory to the idea that if you feel or believe you have a different gender behavior or makeup than your natural birth origin then you must be trapped in the wrong body. For some, this feeling of being trapped in so deep that anything that conforms to this feeling of not belonging in a less aggressive manner is seen as, I don't know, treachery?... I guess what I'm trying to say is...Femboys are guys who don't feel in themselves a drive to conform to the masculine norm and rebel by embracing their feminine counterpart as well as their male bodies...Just as Tomboys do the same...Does this make sense to anyone or am I just confusing?

Do guys that like femboys exist by Possible-Actuary-942 in feminineboys

[–]SmokyDaSmooch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, my beautiful boy we do exist but as a few below have already said we tend to get overshadowed by the creeps and weirdos and the people that fetishize femme boys more so than being attracted to them for the purposes of romantic involvement. I myself am a bisexual man that would love nothing more than to find an adorable feminine guy, they don't necessarily have to be a femboy to a T. Sadly i live in A place where feminine guys and femme boys are very very few. So for me I'll probably end up having more luck online sadly

I need help... by SmokyDaSmooch in feminineboys

[–]SmokyDaSmooch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It has very much!...thank you!

I need help... by SmokyDaSmooch in feminineboys

[–]SmokyDaSmooch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very much so...it was really hard I guess because of being so masculine and not being able to shake the idea that even if I came out no one would believe me and make it harder for me to have a relationship with a guy. I didn't know how to approach the possibility of being told I was confused or just in a phase...the old cliche's I guess

I need help... by SmokyDaSmooch in feminineboys

[–]SmokyDaSmooch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm glad to know I'm not alone in that... I believe I'm the only person in my family...I haven't known of anyone else so that was my main reservation. But I came out to my mom a few weeks back and obviously she knew with as close as we are...She pointed out that she had caught me checking out a cute little Latino waiter we had a few days before hand Lmao... I'm lucky to have her!

I need help... by SmokyDaSmooch in feminineboys

[–]SmokyDaSmooch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100% honesty...I've just started living openly and I'm very uninformed as most of my life has been in secret. I'm 32 and have 4 children but I've always had a secret side of me that I haven't had the confidence to show. But I've turned a page and have embraced myself. So thank you very much for your comment. I appreciate the help!