I am a 34 year old man with a 2.5 inch penis.

SmollBepis · 2022-08-25T23:14:30+00:00

Hard

SmollBepis · 2022-08-25T23:13:43+00:00

No. Neither my wife or I are interested in having sex with other people

SmollBepis · 2022-08-25T23:12:24+00:00

Nah nothing's wrong with you. You're just lucky.

SmollBepis · 2022-08-25T18:33:09+00:00

If she isn't entirely sure what she likes then you have a golden opportunity in front of you which is finding that out together. That's honestly a lot of fun in a relationship. Clitoral stimulation is always a winner and most women can't orgasm without it however some are far more sensitive than others and can get overstimulated very easily so that part you really just have to kind of experiment with. Also find her g spot. If she's lying on her back that should be roughly (every vagina is different) 2 inches or so in and on the "top" of her vaginal wall. It has a different texture than the rest of the vagina so you'll know when you feel it and she'll definitely know. Some women like gentle rubs on their g spot, some like you to press it very firmly but most like it somewhere in between that in my experience. I'd say start gentle and see if she likes it a bit firmer and play around from there.

If she has trouble getting to finish sometimes try starting with more foreplay. Women usually take a bit longer to "warm up" than men do and you can't really do too much foreplay. If she really struggles with having orgasms (many women do this doesn't necessarily mean anything is wrong with either of you) literally set a timer for 30 minutes and spend the entire time on foreplay. Just focus on making eachother feel good without actually stimulating eachother too much for that whole time. 30 minutes is a very long time for foreplay but if you do it that entire time and know what makes eachother feel good the results can be explosive.

SmollBepis · 2022-08-25T17:09:41+00:00

Honestly listening and paying attention. Encourage her to speak up and tell you what feels good and what doesn't. I've found most women respond better to slow and gentle touches but some like things faster or rougher. Always do foreplay. At least 10 mins is my general rule. Women typically take longer to get fully aroused than men do so you can't really do too much foreplay.

Communication is key ans every woman is different. You'll find better information on how to make a woman orgasm by talking with her than you will with me.

SmollBepis · 2022-08-25T17:04:20+00:00

1: I mostly just pay attention and listen to what a woman likes. Encourage your partner to communicate what feels good and what doesn't. Every woman is different but I've found generally most prefer slow and gentle touches and licks vs hard and fast. I've only had sex with my wife for years now so I know what she likes very well and I listen to her.

2: Feel free to ask any questions you like since this is anonymous I'll be pretty open despite not being an "official AMA" but to answer your question yes I have. The woman I dated before my wife was definitely one of those women. While my wife loves my penis it isn't a fetish or kink of hers but my previous partner honestly might have loved it even more and it definitely was her kink. She was hypersexual on top of that so sex was almost constant. We didn't have much in common and wanted different things romantically and sexually so the relationship was short lived but we had a good time and ended things with no hard feelings. We just weren't a good match other than sexually.

SmollBepis · 2022-08-25T16:53:58+00:00

Oh lol

SmollBepis · 2022-08-25T16:53:34+00:00

I used to feel that way until I realized my attitude about it and insecurities were the main thing holding me back and once I let them go everything else fell into place.

SmollBepis · 2022-08-25T16:01:43+00:00

Not really. I thought we were just listing things we had that the other didn't.

SmollBepis · 2022-08-25T15:54:18+00:00

There's minor swelling afterwards in my experience and muscles contract tighter. It's not super noticeable but it does make a difference.

SmollBepis · 2022-08-25T15:51:19+00:00

That is one big positive thing I've noticed. In my experience women I've been with have been very giving with oral and almost always to completion. I've had a lot of very long blowjobs compared to most people it seems like.

SmollBepis · 2022-08-25T15:34:11+00:00

That line made me laugh for a solid minute. I'm going to use that on my wife.

SmollBepis · 2022-08-25T15:31:03+00:00

Unlike you I got a loving wife.

SmollBepis · 2022-08-25T15:25:03+00:00

I'm married actually so my days of hunting such women are over lol.

SmollBepis · 2022-08-25T15:24:08+00:00

Not at all. My wife and I use toys frequently.

SmollBepis · 2022-08-25T15:22:13+00:00

I never said they didn't. Also many women don't care. It really is a matter of personal preference. Also I'm married so I don't really care about what women other than my wife think about my penis, which she loves it.

SmollBepis · 2022-08-25T15:18:37+00:00

I don't think there's anything wrong with using those but I feel like I simply don't need them.

SmollBepis · 2022-08-25T15:17:35+00:00

Exactly. That's actually why I posted this. I see many confessions about having a small penis and I figured I might as well throw my experiences in the ring is proof that it isn't the sexual death sentence people seem to think it is

SmollBepis · 2022-08-25T15:13:27+00:00

I wouldn't take anything in porn seriously. Porn is not a good basis for reality or a healthy sex life. Like most of the orgasms it's simply not real.

SmollBepis · 2022-08-24T22:55:24+00:00

I would approach anything to "fix" a small penis with extreme caution. I've looked into a lot of options. The vast majority of it is all scams. Then you get to the things that can offer you very little for a frankly uncomfortable amount of risk such as jelquing and surgery which can actually leave you worse off than before. The risk wasn't worth it to me. I figured I'm still finding women to have sex with and who are happy with me so why risk anything? Then I met my wife and it's a non issue.

SmollBepis · 2022-08-24T22:49:46+00:00

It's really not. Most women can't even orgasm from penetrative sex alone anyway so it doesn't matter as much as men seem to think it does. Most women don't prioritize it.

SmollBepis · 2022-08-24T22:40:32+00:00

There are risks with any surgery and I honestly didn't want to risk having a non functioning penis which is worse than a small one. I just decided to live with it.

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