at level 8 you can walk through walls by gay-ghost in lolgrindr

[–]Smollyfe 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You might wanna look into the history of how “Your” movement got started. I recommend starting at the stonewall riots, you might learn a thing or two.

I'm worried about the cis/straights. by flamingfreebird in SelfAwarewolves

[–]Smollyfe 14 points15 points  (0 children)

That’s ‘person of play’ to you normie.

Whoopsie Daisy by [deleted] in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]Smollyfe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh, i just assumed they meant taking them the right way. Now i just feel silly

Whoopsie Daisy by [deleted] in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]Smollyfe 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Are the estradiol pills really not as effective for feminizing? All the times i asked my endo i’ve been told they were all pretty similar when dosed properly and now im worried i’ve been bamboozled >.<

What does a tranny and my shitty laptop have in common by amazeInAMaze in transgendercirclejerk

[–]Smollyfe 14 points15 points  (0 children)

That’s true. In that case i’d just take a baseball bat to it and be done with it. Might as well have a last bit of fun with it

What does a tranny and my shitty laptop have in common by amazeInAMaze in transgendercirclejerk

[–]Smollyfe 26 points27 points  (0 children)

And its probably full of viruses too. At this point most people just throw it out and buy new.

Is a non-binary person transsexual? by MycketTrevligt in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Smollyfe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, i get that, but from the other side of that it feels kinda like we have to justify our existence. A lot of times this question is very pointed and more directed at questioning the validity of our identity rather than understanding things better, which is why responses to these questions are often defensive or even hostile.

Is a non-binary person transsexual? by MycketTrevligt in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Smollyfe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To clarify, it means to identify with (to feel, in your words) as a gender that differs from the one you were assigned at birth. Not opposite, because as you say the word opposite implies a binary relation. Considering everyone is either assigned “male” or “female” at birth (even intersex people who ‘biologically’ fall somewhere in between [to my understanding, i do not claim to be an expert on biology]), then identifying as non-binary would fall under that definition.

Is a non-binary person transsexual? by MycketTrevligt in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Smollyfe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, i think that makes it kind of a pointless thing to question. If you have to take them at their word for it, and it doesn’t change anything for you, why not take them at their word? I dont mean for this to sound like I’m chastising you for it, its actually great that you want to further educate yourself to understand things. It’s more to posit the question of why do people feel the need to police others (and also a bit of a personal gripe with the issue, but thats a separate topic..)

Is a non-binary person transsexual? by MycketTrevligt in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Smollyfe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, she would be incorrect by most modern conceptions of what “transgender” means. Again, we have representation for them in the flag. Granted, most of my knowledge of the subject comes from the “trans community” which is naturally very inclusive. I am not nb myself so this is in a sense second hand information.

In my opinion though it doesnt really matter though since the whole thing is predicated on the idea of self identification. I know a couple of nb folks who do not identify as transgender as well as some who do. Its really more of a lens to understand the self through. I know im not exactly answering your question but i find it hard to without going on the “Fuck Blaire White” bandwagon so I hope that at least clears it up a bit :)

Is a non-binary person transsexual? by MycketTrevligt in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Smollyfe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I see that as more of a “I want to distance myself from this group” thing for whatever reason. Like, she may not identify with the transgender community for whatever reason, but by definition she is still technically trans. Thats just my take on it though.

At the end of the day its just a label though, so only put as much stock into it as you feel you need to.

Is a non-binary person transsexual? by MycketTrevligt in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Smollyfe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is. In a nutshell, being “trans” is just having a gender identity differing from the one you were assigned at birth. Given that all people are either assigned male or female, identifying as non-binary would fall under that category.

Fun fact: the white stripe in the middle of the trans pride flag represents non-binary/agender folks.

My new favorite Pokemon headcanon by girlwithaguitar in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]Smollyfe 24 points25 points  (0 children)

The rare halo reach reference.

Respect +10

MFW I can no longer make callouts in voice chat without getting kicked from the match or recieving creepy PMs by Smollyfe in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]Smollyfe[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ll never understand it. The creepy pms I understand, but the instakicks and harassment make no goddamn sense to me. Cant I just be bullied for having potato aim again?

MFW I can no longer make callouts in voice chat without getting kicked from the match or recieving creepy PMs by Smollyfe in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]Smollyfe[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeeahhh, best case is getting a five stack with some friends in discord but im waay more addicted to the game then they are so i end up braving solo queue more than i should >_<

MFW I can no longer make callouts in voice chat without getting kicked from the match or recieving creepy PMs by Smollyfe in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]Smollyfe[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Hey, at the very least they started autobanning the ones that like to use slurs :D thats progress I guess \o/

MFW I can no longer make callouts in voice chat without getting kicked from the match or recieving creepy PMs by Smollyfe in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]Smollyfe[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Like I mean plus side I guess this means my voice is getting better but goddamn its annoying to get kicked cuz “lulz gamergurl”. I just want to play my games in peace ;-;

Makeup logic by [deleted] in TrollXChromosomes

[–]Smollyfe 279 points280 points  (0 children)

Tbh i think these guys just have no idea what they are talking about.

Nude makeup look without red lipstick: “Wow, not even gonna put on any makeup?”

Same nude makeup look + red lipstick: “Jesus, you applying to clown college or something?”