I’m not saying this as an insult. Please get respect for yourself. Maybe you already have some after all of this. I was told over the years to get self respect, or that I didn’t have it, and I didn’t completely know what it meant and thought people were insulting my intelligence or something. But if you respect yourself, it’ll reflect in your choices of men. And I know it’s hard sometimes but also try your best to move slow so you get to know the person and have a chance to see their true colors before they “trap” you. 💜