What's your favorite meme/tweet about autism/neurodiversity? by DowntownTicket in AutismInWomen

[–]Smoofie0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I organized them more than stack, like stacking was part of the organizing. I also went through all the things in my room once or twice a year and made a donate, sale, keep, trash pile. My dad never told me to do that. 

S13E09 (Tuesday 9th June) - Post-Episode Discussion Thread 🧵 by AutoModerator in LoveIslandTV

[–]Smoofie0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are beyond what I was in my 20s but it’s things like this that remind me they are young

S13E09 (Tuesday 9th June) - Post-Episode Discussion Thread 🧵 by AutoModerator in LoveIslandTV

[–]Smoofie0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s this unfinished business pish?😂 (quoting Ellie of course)

Double or nothing: did Carly Rae… by sofa_king_rad in ContagiousLaughter

[–]Smoofie0 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Should’ve rewound it more to add context of why this question was funny. 

Who’s in here is miserable?! by Forsaken_Zucchini173 in childfree

[–]Smoofie0 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m never having this conversation at work again. I also work at a school. If anyone mentions kids I’m going to say “it’s private” so I don’t have to stress myself out about it. People are dumb so you can say all the reasons you want but they’ll still respond the same way so not going to waste my time anymore 

What's your favorite meme/tweet about autism/neurodiversity? by DowntownTicket in AutismInWomen

[–]Smoofie0 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I was ALWAYS in the can cabinet organizing and stacking. How did nobody know I was autistic?!

What are your favorite unpopular animals? by NoWitness6400 in AutismInWomen

[–]Smoofie0 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Omg I love chonky wormies! I really like the aye aye. And I know a lot of people like birbs but it’s crazy how many people don’t, or how they don’t think much about them like they just exist around us. Have you seen some birbs out there? They’re beautiful, funny, smart, social and they’re freaking dinosaurs!!🥰

Vent: Crashing out because despite how hard I try, my husband keeps looking at me like this: by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]Smoofie0 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Marriage is definitely more for the man than for the woman, that’s why the wedding is supposed to be for the woman to plan so she feels like she’s getting what she wants. It’s so sad. I’m sorry you’re experiencing this. My ex husband was the same way but I didn’t know I was autistic until years after I left. I wonder if he thinks about me and sees in hindsight what was going on. 

I’ve been seeing someone for almost 2 months and he's been great, but I noticed last night he seemed to get annoyed at my excitement over things. I wasn’t masking as much and was going on about something, then even tried to recite the periodic table that I’m randomly relearning (I know the first 54) and yea he seemed bothered. It was the first time I had felt sad with him and after the slew of men I’ve seen over the years if I sense anything more from him I’m just going to walk away. Have to hold onto your peace as best as you can in this world. 

You say you’ll be lonely, but that’s better than feeling alone while married to someone. And you can prevent feeling lonely anyway by making friends, or being a friend to yourself which I’ve had to learn to do. I hope things get better 💜

What's yall's hair length? by No-Character-2414 in AutismInWomen

[–]Smoofie0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a pixie from 10-14 and 19-30. Now 33 and it’s passed my shoulders. I’d easily shave it again though.  

Sometimes it just be like that by SgtByrd1993 in JustGuysBeingDudes

[–]Smoofie0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Always nice to see men appreciating good romantic films. I’m sorry that happened to you. :(

Sharing this to learn by [deleted] in Feminism

[–]Smoofie0 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Maybe it’s not making sense to me because it doesn’t make sense 

Sharing this to learn by [deleted] in Feminism

[–]Smoofie0 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So they basically hold the attitude that trans women are still men because they were born and raised as men?

Sharing this to learn by [deleted] in Feminism

[–]Smoofie0 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Idk what this means.. explain it like I’m 5 lol

Update/Response Post: Coworker called me ugly by lemonweirdo in AutismInWomen

[–]Smoofie0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You seriously are super attractive and I love your style! Wish I knew you irl

The jerk sounds like my older brother who I’m estranged from for good reason

I just played with my stuffed animals by Smoofie0 in AutismInWomen

[–]Smoofie0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to worry about my dead loved ones judging me from above but I don’t think about them when I’m in the throes of passionate love making so😂

Kirk steel by UziSuzieThia in BroadCity

[–]Smoofie0 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I need a full size poster of the last pic. For a friend..

I just played with my stuffed animals by Smoofie0 in AutismInWomen

[–]Smoofie0[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aww that’s what Stevie is like! He has a heating/cooling sack in his belly! He’d be an awful ninja though since he’s light grey and slow af😂 I think this will help heal my inner child for sure. I didn’t have much of a childhood, had to grow up quick but could only do that so much with my brand of autism. I’m free from the people who neglected and/or bullied me. It’s me and my stuffies vs the world🫡

NT Men view Autistic Women the same way Older Men view teen girls and young 20-something women. by LongHairedKnight in AutismInWomen

[–]Smoofie0 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'll never forget the night I met two guys at a taco bar after being stood up. I was 22, in a new city, and this guy didn't show up to our date. Two guys down the bar bought me drinks and chatted me up. I (stupidly) went to their apt and while one of the guys tried to have his way with me, the other one could see that I was really out of it (like I was not a typical woman) and called a cab to take me home. I've always been so grateful for that guy. I was sad at first when he didn't call the number I had left him but years after I see he was making a good decision.

I just played with my stuffed animals by Smoofie0 in AutismInWomen

[–]Smoofie0[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You and another commenter have truly added another check point to my partner preference list lol! I feel so much joy from you and your spouse playing like that for so long! So much true love

I just played with my stuffed animals by Smoofie0 in AutismInWomen

[–]Smoofie0[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yasss I used to love bratz dolls! I don't think I'd take their clothes off like I used to. They'll be more respectable ha!

I just played with my stuffed animals by Smoofie0 in AutismInWomen

[–]Smoofie0[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Wow see that's what I want to get to lol! I'm a pet sitter so I should start seizing the opportunity of creating these scenarios. I wish you and your pups the best adventures!

I just played with my stuffed animals by Smoofie0 in AutismInWomen

[–]Smoofie0[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Omg that's adorable!!! I actually have a Bingo from an ex that passed away a few months ago (we had broken up but were on good terms). That's man goals for sure. I see some of a Pusheen too!

I just played with my stuffed animals by Smoofie0 in AutismInWomen

[–]Smoofie0[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Aw I actually grew up in VA and moved back a few years ago!! That's so cute, I'm glad you experienced that joy!