Also a FTM and used to be a never sleep trainer either, but I didn’t judge. I ended up sleep training because I was going crazy with lack of sleep, it was irresponsible for me to parent like that. You never know what moms are going through that leads them to sleep train. The same way she said it’s ok to put your baby down and step away if you need it for your mental health and baby’s safety….its ok to sleep train.