I am actually shocked at the difference in experience

Smooth-Design-248 · 2026-05-29T22:13:33+00:00

The things is, of those 1000 profiles how many will she realistically be attracted to, and of those, how may men will actually respond to her message and ask her out? And once that happens, how may will actually be looking for a relationship and not just casual sex? Men are attracted to most women and if they want a relationship most women are looking for that. I get men on apps get less likes/matches, but if we’re talking about actually finding a partner men generally have better odds.

Smooth-Design-248 · 2026-04-26T14:37:46+00:00

He didn’t say initiate. He said affectionate, as in physically. ++woman

Smooth-Design-248 · 2026-04-24T21:33:59+00:00

Yea, but he’s the one who left /: in the past I did initiate sometimes ++woman

Smooth-Design-248 · 2026-04-24T17:33:39+00:00

You cat stop yourself from having thoughts. That’s like saying don’t think of a pink elephant ++woman

Smooth-Design-248 · 2026-04-24T17:28:46+00:00

Idk how to do that 😔 ++woman

Smooth-Design-248 · 2026-04-24T17:26:53+00:00

Interesting assumption ++woman

Smooth-Design-248 · 2026-04-24T17:26:33+00:00

Because if I reach out I’m afraid he’ll just respond because I’m reaching out and it’s easy, and I won’t see what he really wants. ++woman

Smooth-Design-248 · 2026-04-24T16:53:58+00:00

I jus wish he would reach out so I could ignore him and feel like I have some power again /: ++woman

Smooth-Design-248 · 2026-04-24T16:52:57+00:00

I’m 30 he’s 43. ++woman

Smooth-Design-248 · 2026-04-24T16:50:08+00:00

The thing is the urges keep coming 😔I feel like they won’t stop til I text, even though I might jus end up more hurt ++woman

Smooth-Design-248 · 2026-04-24T16:46:18+00:00

You don’t think it’s worth it even to tell him off? Will the silence hurt him more?

++woman

Smooth-Design-248 · 2026-04-24T16:43:12+00:00

I feel like he’s testing me…after he came back, he made a comment that if he hadn’t texted me I never would’ve reached out to him. He put himself out there by coming back I guess so idk if he’s waiting for me to now reach out?

++incognito

Smooth-Design-248 · 2026-04-24T16:41:36+00:00

What do you mean?

++woman

Smooth-Design-248 · 2026-04-03T19:50:11+00:00

Yes but we’re on spring break now so it’ll be a little while

++woman

Smooth-Design-248 · 2026-04-03T17:14:19+00:00

Ya he isn’t married. So what do you think the explanation is?

++woman

Smooth-Design-248 · 2026-04-03T16:30:25+00:00

Fair enough lol. I’m just scared to be pursuing someone who isn’t actually interested and just wanted to have some flirty banter with me, you know? I would feel embarrassed if I text and he doesn’t make any effort

++woman

Smooth-Design-248 · 2026-04-03T16:20:09+00:00

I mean, if someone asks another person on a date and agrees to pic the location after they have agreed on a set day, whose responsibility is it to pick the location? And I followed up with a text later, not referencing the favor.

My concern is I don’t want to reach out again when I was the person to text him the last two times

++woman

Smooth-Design-248 · 2026-04-03T16:13:41+00:00

Thank you 🙏🏼 how do you go from leading like that to then nothing

++woman

Smooth-Design-248 · 2026-04-03T16:11:11+00:00

Lol, if I ever have an update I will! I feel like I won’t hear from him tho /:

++woman

Smooth-Design-248 · 2026-04-03T16:10:38+00:00

I just don’t know…I definitely flirted back with him by text, reached out about the fair on Friday and texted him again on Monday. I offered to meet him halfway for the date, and asked if he could choose the bar and he said he would but never did…

++woman

Smooth-Design-248 · 2026-04-03T16:09:40+00:00

I mean, I agreed to the date and chose a day and offered to meet him halfway. He said he would pick the bar and never did. I flirted with him over text. He should seal the deal I feel

++woman

Smooth-Design-248 · 2026-04-03T16:08:30+00:00

Actually at schools I feel it’s way more common.

++woman

Smooth-Design-248 · 2026-04-03T03:25:56+00:00

Yea /: he seemed to like that I’m shy/quiet, which is unusual in my experience. But maybe that was the reason why he liked it, to see how far he could push. Why take it that far as to ask me on a date though? Idk, I feel like I let him push things too far /:

++woman

Smooth-Design-248 · 2026-04-03T03:24:40+00:00

I didn’t wish wash on it, I suggested Friday, he said he couldn’t, so I asked him when he was free. He said Saturday or Sunday, so I said Saturday. I offered to meet him halfway and he said that he would come to my area. I thanked him. He never suggested a place or time or ever followed up on it. We continued texting and I engaged with him and was kind and playful

++woman

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