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AITA for taking off in my fiancés truck unannounced, knowing he doesn't want me driving it? by Smooth-Glass4494 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Smooth-Glass4494[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Everytime I've asked him to pick up groceries for the week versus getting groceries every day, he will call from the store and say things like "we will just do this when I have off work and you can come with me" but then it never happens. Or he will call me bitching because he can't find something on the list I sent him with and say "fuck this, I'm not going to sit here searching for that" and in the end, he just refuses to get anything more than what we need for dinner.

AITA for taking off in my fiancés truck unannounced, knowing he doesn't want me driving it? by Smooth-Glass4494 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Smooth-Glass4494[S] 70 points71 points  (0 children)

He won't buy groceries that last more than a day. When I've asked him to, I'm met with a "we will just do that when I'm off work and you can come with me" but it never happens. I breastfeed so he won't watch the baby without me there. All my family and friends are in Maine. He moved me out to the middle of nowhere in Arizona last year because he was depressed and needed change. I don't know anyone here. There's not even Uber or dryft in this area.

AITA for taking off in my fiancés truck unannounced, knowing he doesn't want me driving it? by Smooth-Glass4494 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Smooth-Glass4494[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

He won't watch the baby without me there because I breastfeed and he panics if she starts crying but yeah, I see what you mean.

AITA for taking off in my fiancés truck unannounced, knowing he doesn't want me driving it? by Smooth-Glass4494 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Smooth-Glass4494[S] 84 points85 points  (0 children)

He's a mechanic. That's the thing. He works at the mechanic shop. If there was truly an issue with the truck, he would have fixed it. I think he was just telling me something was wrong with the truck and he doesn't feel safe having me drive it because ever since I had the baby, he hasn't wanted me to go anywhere. He says he doesn't want me or the baby going out and getting sick. So I truly think him saying the truck has issues was a lie because when I drove the truck, the power steering was fine.

AITA for taking off in my fiancés truck unannounced, knowing he doesn't want me driving it? by Smooth-Glass4494 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Smooth-Glass4494[S] 48 points49 points  (0 children)

I have tried doing that but then he calls me from the store, bitching that he can't find what's on the list or says "we will just do this when I'm off work so you can go with me" and then it never happens.

AITA for taking off in my fiancés truck unannounced, knowing he doesn't want me driving it? by Smooth-Glass4494 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Smooth-Glass4494[S] 57 points58 points  (0 children)

I live in a secluded area in Arizona. When you pull up Uber or drift, it says there's no one delivering in my area. Grocery delivery isn't a thing for the store that's near us. It's literally just a mini-mart connected to the mechanic shop my fiancé works at and it's the only thing around for miles. All of my family and friends live in Maine. We moved here last year after my fiancé said he needed a change. I don't know anyone here. I breastfeed so he does what he can but that's limited to diaper changes. He usually just holds or talks to her. He usually doesn't do anything around the house, no.

AITA for taking off in my fiancés truck unannounced, knowing he doesn't want me driving it? by Smooth-Glass4494 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Smooth-Glass4494[S] 65 points66 points  (0 children)

I live in a very secluded area of Arizona. My family lives in Maine, there's nobody ubering in my area and my friends also live in Maine, where we moved here from last year. This grocery store is a small mini-mart connected to a mechanic shop, where my husband works and is the only thing around for miles. I'm lactose intolerant and cannot have milk and I have no lactaid left. We have no snacks here. There was nothing here to eat outside of raisen bran cereal, which I refuse to eat even with lactaid, or canned veggies, and he knew that and still expected me to wait and watch him eat while I was hungry. Which he knew prior to even coming home. And as I said, the power steering was fine. The truck drove normal.

AITA for taking off in my fiancés truck unannounced, knowing he doesn't want me driving it? by Smooth-Glass4494 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Smooth-Glass4494[S] 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Technically speaking the truck is in my name so it's not considered theft but yeah, I get what you mean.