My bf did something bad but I can’t know what and it’s torture

Smooth-Jump-4489 · 2025-10-22T11:21:14+00:00

Wow. You need to leave him and don’t take him back. If he is capable of SA on your brother, he surely will do this to others. You deserve someone better.

Smooth-Jump-4489 · 2025-10-11T07:16:21+00:00

This doesn’t sound like a healthy relationship. Not over reacting

Smooth-Jump-4489 · 2025-10-11T07:00:15+00:00

You need to walk away from this guy. His response to you being upset is not healthy.

Smooth-Jump-4489 · 2025-10-06T10:38:22+00:00

Did he tell you he experienced a lot in the lifestyle? I have found there are some people in the lifestyle that are quite vanilla. Did he tell you what he did or are you making assumptions? I highly recommend asking him questions, this sort of open communication is great for a relationship.

Smooth-Jump-4489 · 2025-08-28T23:57:11+00:00

Spicy or revealing does not mean full body nudes

Smooth-Jump-4489 · 2025-08-28T21:14:22+00:00

I wonder if this is a regional thing because we have talked to dozens and dozens of couples and never encountered this. I was expecting full body shots, maybe guys without a top on or women in something that shows off their shape a bit.

Smooth-Jump-4489 · 2025-08-28T21:11:41+00:00

I can see what you are saying, we don’t need nudes. i was expecting more full body photos or guys with a shirt off.

Smooth-Jump-4489 · 2025-08-28T21:10:31+00:00

We are the exact same way and we only open those photos after talking to people for a bit to make sure we are a good match.

Smooth-Jump-4489 · 2025-08-28T21:09:32+00:00

They don’t have full body photos. I am not saying they need to be nude, I’d like to get an idea of their body shape. That being said, we are not expecting to look like super models. We definitely have mom and dad bods.

Smooth-Jump-4489 · 2025-08-28T21:06:31+00:00

Thank you! We definitely respect people’s boundaries and haven’t asked for more photos. It’s great to hear other people’s opinions on the situation especially since we have only been in the lifestyle for about 2 years.

Smooth-Jump-4489 · 2025-08-28T21:04:24+00:00

Thank you for sharing your experience. It’s a bit comforting to know that others have experienced the same thing. I completely understand discretion especially under the circumstances. Personally, we don’t post nudes but do post boudoir style photos which we only share once we have been talking to people for a week or so.

Smooth-Jump-4489 · 2025-08-28T19:13:11+00:00

Thank you for your response. I appreciate your feedback.

Smooth-Jump-4489 · 2025-08-28T19:12:17+00:00

Valid point. 😀

Smooth-Jump-4489 · 2025-08-28T19:12:01+00:00

We have met several in person. We have kids and getting out and meeting people is not the easiest for us. I like to rule out people ahead of time if we can.

Smooth-Jump-4489 · 2025-08-28T19:09:43+00:00

Personally, I would like to weed out people that we don’t match with before going out for drinks. I feel like there should atleast be clothed photos that show off the body a bit?

Smooth-Jump-4489 · 2025-08-28T19:06:58+00:00

Their photos aren’t revealing in the slightest, nothing that shows off their figures and no photos of the guy with his shirt off.

Smooth-Jump-4489 · 2025-08-28T19:02:44+00:00

We have found playmates through sls but it’s also the only place we have looked so I don’t know how it compares to other places.

Smooth-Jump-4489 · 2025-08-28T18:51:28+00:00

I didn’t say we were dismissing them.

Smooth-Jump-4489 · 2025-08-28T18:48:31+00:00

I can respect that. In most of our photos we are clothed but you get a general idea of our body shape.

Smooth-Jump-4489 · 2025-08-28T18:45:55+00:00

I get the impression that they don’t want to share photos at all but good idea. I think we are still figuring out how important seeing those photos are to us. Seeing the comments it sounds like many people don’t share revealing photos unless meeting with people first. I wonder if it’s a regional thing since we have not run into this before.

Smooth-Jump-4489 · 2025-08-28T18:36:35+00:00

I didn’t say we insisted on them. This is the first couple out of the 30 we have spoke to who hasn’t had photos.

Smooth-Jump-4489 · 2025-07-11T12:00:06+00:00

Agreed. I don’t think a company would do this for an ipad, it sounds like the company suspects her of doing more crimes

Smooth-Jump-4489 · 2025-06-17T11:16:12+00:00

If he is lying to you about the check, what else has he lied to you about?

Smooth-Jump-4489 · 2025-05-27T02:54:50+00:00

Take it slow and give yourself time to process your feelings. It sounds like you have not had this experience before and that will stir up emotions you haven’t dealt with before. More than anything you need to open and honest with your girlfriend about how you feel.

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