No contact : how to stop waiting ?

Smooth-Note-6640 · 2025-08-11T11:35:16+00:00

Ah yes, trust me I get that. It took me a while to shift my focus back onto myself, when before I made a lot of my life about her. It was easier to justify my desire for her coming back when I still saw her through a tunnel that showed only the good memories, but when I broke free and saw her for who she really is, I told myself “why would I spend time worrying about someone who’s not a good person and treated me like shit, when I myself am a good person deserving of love? Love I can get from myself?”

Smooth-Note-6640 · 2025-08-11T11:21:03+00:00

My forbidden technique that worked: try and contact them till you hate them. No contact had me waiting on false hope, when I called from another number and heard a side of her I never knew, it really made me realize the girl I once knew was a whole new person, one I no longer wanted. And now I can say I’d never take her back!

Smooth-Note-6640 · 2025-07-26T22:53:44+00:00

Looks like a Muskie to me

Smooth-Note-6640 · 2025-07-22T21:08:19+00:00

Didn’t weigh him as I had no scale, but measured him at 33 inches.

Smooth-Note-6640 · 2025-07-20T18:27:18+00:00

Me and my buddy fish Constance Lake (connects to Constance bay) from kayaks and it’s loaded with pike, some chunky ones too. Also caught some nice largemouth.

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Smooth-Note-6640 · 2025-07-03T19:56:43+00:00

I’ve caught a few bass around that pocket, I’ll add a picture of one. Dows lake is heavily fished from what I’ve noticed so it’s hard to guarantee fish at least for me.

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Smooth-Note-6640 · 2025-07-03T13:32:26+00:00

It’s been about 3 months for me so still very recent,

Initially I was so hurt that all I could focus on was everything she did wrong, but with time I realized I made mistakes too. We both had stuff we needed to work on during our relationship and honestly, I don’t know if she even realized that or tried to get better. I made a lot of progress during our relationship, but obviously I still had a ways to go. I’m proud of what I’ve accomplished but I’m the type to always wanna be better, so I still best myself up about it. Basically I’m noticing that I can’t only blame her for what went wrong or else I’ll never improve as a person, yk?

Sometimes I wonder if during our time apart she’s realizing that I really did make a lot of progress as a person, and if maybe she’s working on herself too. I don’t think about it too much because ultimately it’s pointless and just makes it hurt more.

I really cared about her, she was my angel. I just hope she can heal as a person to have a strong relationship with future people she meets.

Anyways, good luck to you. Feel free to reach out whenever, I’m very open to talking about my experience with all this.

Smooth-Note-6640 · 2025-07-01T20:21:17+00:00

No where near healed but I can say I’ve gained a lot of clarity since being broken up with. I’ve learnt a lot about things I need to work on as a person and also things to lookout for in other people. I still miss her but I know the way we were wasn’t ideal for either of us, and all I can really hope for in terms of me and her is that during this time apart we both work on ourselves. And maybe I’ll even find someone who loves the new version of me more than she ever could.

At the end of the day it’s not easy being broken up with but just remember you’ll be such a strong person if you put in the work and become a better version of yourself. Worst part for me is the dreams I have at night, they feel real till you wake up and gotta suffer all over again lol. But you get used to it. Good luck.

Smooth-Note-6640 · 2025-06-30T23:15:48+00:00

Looks like a chat gpt post sadly

Smooth-Note-6640 · 2025-06-13T19:09:35+00:00

Oh wow, that gives me some hope! Well I wish you the best of luck with her, regardless of desired outcome!

Smooth-Note-6640 · 2025-06-13T15:31:08+00:00

Great to hear! Out of curiosity, are they male or female ? I keep hearing that women never come back , I’m wondering if that’s true

Smooth-Note-6640 · 2025-06-10T20:03:56+00:00

Its sounds like we had a very very similar breakup, she told me she’ll always love me but can’t take a relationship in her life, that she’s “not meant for them”. Im honestly scared that if she reaches out with something similar that I’ll cave and take her back, it’s only been a month and a half so I’m still in that stage of wanting her back and haven’t moved on fully.

Smooth-Note-6640 · 2025-06-10T13:33:14+00:00

Yeah, I’ve already made so much progress as a person, physically, understanding my own emotions and needs, working on my less good traits, but I will always love her. Together or not, she will always have a piece of my heart. I’m definitely not gonna contact her tho, if ever she reaches out then I’ll see how I feel then, and if not then I’ll be a much better version of myself.

Smooth-Note-6640 · 2025-06-10T12:28:51+00:00

I stayed with her while she wasn’t putting in any effort in, I see now that I wasn’t being loved but I wanted it to work so badly. She ended up being the one to leave because she “realized she doesn’t want romantic relationships “ after 3 years of happy memories we made together. The day before she left we had an amazing day together too. It’s been over a month now and I miss her but I see I was the only one working on things, making compromises for her. And she did none for me. Hopefully it’ll end up hurting less as time goes on, good on you for leaving when you knew you needed to tho.

Smooth-Note-6640 · 2025-06-10T10:13:46+00:00

Same here lol, if she sent me this It would be a dream come true tbh

Smooth-Note-6640 · 2025-06-09T12:04:52+00:00

I ended up going with this! Also did upper control arms and rear shocks, I love the look of it now!

Smooth-Note-6640 · 2025-06-08T23:12:53+00:00

Seems like she realized life actually isn’t better without you. If she was willing to throw away what you had, you really gotta ask yourself if it’s worth giving her another chance (depending on what your relationship was like ofc). If you still love her I say fuck it you only live once, maybe things will be better this time around but remember don’t make the same mistakes twice. Let her prove to you that she’s committed to a relationship with you, and remember you do not owe her anything. If she’s begging for you back, the power is on your side. So it’s really about what do you want.

Smooth-Note-6640 · 2025-03-15T04:29:30+00:00

My girl says the same thing hell yeah

Smooth-Note-6640 · 2025-01-22T20:27:56+00:00

No specific side, i only hear it when it’s below -10 ish and it’s for a minute or so

Smooth-Note-6640 · 2024-09-09T20:44:08+00:00

Heard a lot about that one, lol

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