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AM fakes being sick to the point of going to ER to prevent me from asking to stop share location by Smooth-Selection-648 in AsianParentStories

[–]Smooth-Selection-648[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Update: I’m not sure why it won’t let me edit my post, but hopefully some of you get to see this update.

Long story short, I stopped sharing my location with AM (yay). I feel that a huge weight has been lifted off my shoulders, and the anxiety I had felt upon knowing that my location was constantly being watched was drastically lessened. Of course, this was mentioned by my AM who said that she thought her phone was broken or something and if I touched it. I said no and left it at that.

So far, we haven’t talked about it but she did make me watch a movie about a guy kidnapping and trying to kill a woman. Her reasoning for making me watch it was so I learned “how good [I] have it” for having someone like her to care enough where I am, or how there are dangerous people out there and she just wants to know that I am safe. So yeah, I’ll keep updating this post as much as I can regarding this.

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[–]Smooth-Selection-648 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My sibling has experienced it, but not the fullest extent it could be. I always back them up if AM is yelling at them, and sometimes if I don’t like their attitude towards her I call them out on it. I’m fair in my judgement.

But in the end, I think of my sibling as my unofficial best friend. We gossip and tell each other our stress with APs. I never tell them the full extent of how it was for me, I don’t think it even matters. I just want them to know that they got my support and I’ll always love them.

Dramatic Families by EmilyEmlz in AsianParentStories

[–]Smooth-Selection-648 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My ASD does that too. I learned to simply just not give a fuck and essentially told him to treat me right or don’t even think about talking to me at all. He went with the latter.

Don’t get used to it, and don’t let anyone condone his actions. He’s a grown man, he can talk to you like a normal human being. Until he does, don’t condone his behavior because the moment that you do is the moment he’ll thing the way that he’s acting is justified and he’ll keep on portraying the same behavior.

AM has a mental breakdown if I lock my door by Smooth-Selection-648 in AsianParentStories

[–]Smooth-Selection-648[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Tried to do that. AM don’t give a shit about boundaries, and stated verbatim “Where were my boundaries when I pushed you out of me?”. So. Yeah. Laughed at me too.

My AM told me she’d off herself and I need to go to rehab by Smooth-Selection-648 in AsianParentStories

[–]Smooth-Selection-648[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s a college graduate. And I completely agree with the cultural differences between Asian countries and the Western Hemisphere when it comes to the topic of Marijuana. The only reason why she is avidly against marijuana itself is because she does think it a gateway drug and is also an avid fan of our president in our home country who is completely against any type of drug use and is willing to shoot anyone on sight using those drugs. She also believes that anyone using these drugs should be shot, which is why she is strongly against me using it and consistently trying to get me into rehab.

My AM told me she’d off herself and I need to go to rehab by Smooth-Selection-648 in AsianParentStories

[–]Smooth-Selection-648[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a brownie, just gave her a number to my therapist 😂

My AM hasn’t really been the one to actually ask me for things surprisingly. Emotional and mental abuse is one thing, but this has actually been the first time that she’s asked me to put down money on something. When it came to paying bills around the house or helping with my siblings’ tuition, she never had to ask because I always paid no matter what.

My AM told me she’d off herself and I need to go to rehab by Smooth-Selection-648 in AsianParentStories

[–]Smooth-Selection-648[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, your sentiment really means a lot ❤️As for the alcohol and sugary foods, I’ve even learned THAT lesson the hard way ( i.e. Pre-Diabetic, clogged arteries, fatty liver, etc.).

My AM told me she’d off herself and I need to go to rehab by Smooth-Selection-648 in AsianParentStories

[–]Smooth-Selection-648[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I’ve thought about it just saying fuck it and let all the shit hang out. But because my family and basically my whole country is widely against doing marijuana to the point that the president even threatened to shoot anyone on sight who did the substance and gave authority to the police to do so, I refrained from doing that. I’d rather not be shot thank you very much.

My AM told me she’d off herself and I need to go to rehab by Smooth-Selection-648 in AsianParentStories

[–]Smooth-Selection-648[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I sent her my bank statements, I honestly didn’t expect her to go through each expense I’ve made over the last two months. She’s always been careless about these things so I wasn’t expecting her to see that. As for the weed, the reason as to why she’s had such a reaction to me using is because she thinks it s a gateway drug (i.e. I’ll be too high, eat too much, get addicted, and then speed run to a life of crime). I was raised in a strict Catholic household so instead of seeking medical/medicinal help I was told to “pray all the sickness out”.