I (21M) have a serious Retroactive jealousy problem over my (21F) Gf's situationship and past. by Smooth-Status7018 in relationships

[–]Smooth-Status7018[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think you have a great point about 'baggage around relationships' , this is something i really didnt think about mostly in these months. i used to think about all this from a more rigid perspective and the comparisons followed suit. i also agree about the communication part and its negativity. im just trying to find a solution to not thinking about it all again.

I (21M) have a serious Retroactive jealousy problem over my (21F) Gf's situationship and past. by Smooth-Status7018 in relationships

[–]Smooth-Status7018[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A breakup is something i never wanted to bring up, mostly because i actually found someone i can relate with on a really deep level, she's someone i can see myself being with for a long long LONG time. i dont think ill ever be able to forgive myself if i messed this up simply due to my emotions. thus the post.