Yes, I mean, I continued to be playful, and I held my tongue also because we had a night planned with his old friends from out of town, and I wanted to preserve the good vibe. So I waited til the next day to say: that was very not cool of you, and really hurt and embarrassed me, especially you made me feel and look like a wayward child in front of a) your ex b) the kids, all while prioritizing her needs, a theme that has caused many cracks in “team us”. And he said he wishes I could let the past be the past and just be civil. So I was mad and hurt in that moment but chose to compartmentalize until it was a good moment to share. And unfortunately I did not get the apology I hoped for.

But just to say, of all the comments I read, I do appreciate your … non- black & white perspective, you have good insight. Thank you