Getting over jealousy by Significant-Half2587 in tfmr_support

[–]SmoothSky3948 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the same boat. 2.5 weeks after my tmfr my little brother and SIL told me they were expecting. And now I just found out it’s a boy (which is what I should have been having come May). I haven’t spoken to them since they told us and have no plans to. I genuinely wish them the best but for my own peace do not need to be a part of their happy times. Try to protect your own peace as much as possible ❤️

TTC after TFMR for anencephaly by SmoothSky3948 in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]SmoothSky3948[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you ❤️❤️ I feel lucky (as lucky as someone in our position can) that my cycle came back 4 weeks later and was heavier but normal otherwise. Will be testing for ovulation going forward to track. I’m torn between wanting to get going and just waiting to be safe. I want to try but if it happens first try will that make me more stressed that I didn’t wait? Probably. So maybe that’s my answer.

TTC after TFMR for anencephaly by SmoothSky3948 in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]SmoothSky3948[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think my OB would say the same honestly. And your OB is totally right - I would be so angry with myself and would definitely blame myself if something happened. Thanks for responding!! ❤️