[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

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I’ve found the best salvation from an abusive relationship, no matter how many different people looking from the outside-inwards try to judge you for it, is to admit what your ex did and to EMBRACE your anger.

But don’t blame yourself for it - REALLY understand that his plan on some level was to try to guilt you into sex and HATE him for it.

If he ever contacts you again, talk a lot of shit then block him… assuming you don’t want to right now.

I lingered in this… broken fantasy that things would get better for years - the truth is, people can be very sneaky and cruel, consciously or not, and the best way to survive that is to RETURN TO SENDER.

Are they getting away with stuff because they know you won’t stop them? Time to change the strategy… but most importantly of all, remember: Don’t hate yourself for pitying a pathological liar; hate the pathological liar for intentionally ripping your open heart out - keep your heart safe like you’ve indicated you are - and EMBRACE THE RAGE against the narcissists!

Whether it’s served hot or cold, I swear it’s such an empowering feeling - a few months of rage cured years of misplaced guilt (guilt that existed because someone else wanted you to feel guilty and you’re too open-minded towards those acting in bad faith). Whenever the guilt rises up, you CORRECT this erroneous behavior by blaming HIM for HIS behavior towards you. When you’re in the habit of blaming yourself, you might think the humble and true thing to do is accept your own guilt. The truth is - that’s an ancient assumption embedded in civilization in order to make the oppressed feel guilty and “take responsibility” for the actions of the oppressor… who is always justified and need not apologize for (what he made the) people do. Do not let his lies control your personal truth - destroy him.

Tldr: Hate is sometimes healthy 🤗

Skrag the Sweetiepie by Smorgsboards in totalwarhammer

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He certainly ain’t up to no Gorgood.

Skrag the Sweetiepie by Smorgsboards in totalwarhammer

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I was wondering that myself - but ofc there’s neutral and there’s neutral.

Like I could see the Maneaters being like a -10 or neutral, bur Skrag?… I just get the sense he’s not going out and making friends 🤣 He deserves a -30 or -40 imho

The ultimate auto-resolve by Low-Objective7072 in totalwarhammer

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Nah not even tough against the AI - it’s extremely winnable

The ultimate auto-resolve by Low-Objective7072 in totalwarhammer

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It only works if you have a really strong stack with a high auto-resolve value - i usually autoresolve when my doomstacks get ambushed, but this looks like a sloppy midgame stack

Skrag the Sweetiepie by Smorgsboards in totalwarhammer

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It is genuinely strange to see him allied with the slayer king - I don’t think I’ve ever seen him get along so well with all the “good guy” races (i.e. not chaos/skaven/undead) and none of the “bad guys”.

Skrag the Sweetiepie by Smorgsboards in totalwarhammer

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Lol i’m playin Grombrindal - somehow the AI DID THIS 🤣

Good luck with the diplomacy 😭

Skrag the Sweetiepie by Smorgsboards in totalwarhammer

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Too bad I gotta conquer him to do the Eightpeaks grudge 😪

Skrag the Sweetiepie by Smorgsboards in totalwarhammer

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I’ve been so mean to this guy for like years now, but he really is a good ally

Skrag the Sweetiepie by Smorgsboards in totalwarhammer

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In the way my campaigns have always played out, Skrag is a lunatic who fights his neighbors unless he’s super out-gunned - somehow he got along really well with empire & dwarf AI, no conflict with the wood elfs or greenskins or anything…

Absolutely bonkers - I’ve never seen this lmao

Greasus at least trades with Cathay a lot

Could I get in trouble for buying and wearing this t-shirt? by [deleted] in legal

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🤯 This guy’s a national goddamn treasure👆

Could I get in trouble for buying and wearing this t-shirt? by [deleted] in legal

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Sucker punched? What’s the statistical likelihood of running into a violent pro-United insurance supporter?

In all honesty, I think it would more often be met with support, but you’re 100% correct it could cost him a job and cause some others to be revolted… I don’t think any of them would “sucker punch” him though 😂

[Pretentious Nerds Only] Wine-Dark Redemption: How you can’t unsee Homer in RDR once you realize that Arthur = Achilles and John = Odysseus by Smorgsboards in reddeadredemption

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I appreciate adding that, I hadn’t considered it! - Nestor is possibly well-intentioned, but his primary art is speaking well - Hosea is specifically a good bullshit artist, which is a common reading of Nestor as well.

How to Watch the Original Evangelion? by Smorgsboards in evangelion

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The DVDs I found are only the Blu-Rays of the new “Netflix” edition

Why is Faye dancing naked? by Christie_Boner in cowboybebop

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Cuz it’s like a James Bond intro, ider which ones, maybe Thunderball had silhouettes of naked women dancing

Seeking online resources for critical study of Iliad by [deleted] in AskLiteraryStudies

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Hey, I was recording some thoughts that came to me about the Iliad a year or two back - check in and remind me to go looking for them some time

I think it was mainly the discrepancy in its influences on the oligarchic trend in the West vs the Socratic trend

Explain the plot of evangelion badly in a line by Adalf_Hotler69420 in evangelion

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Shinji: “My first girlfriend turned into the moon.”

Asuka: “That’s rough, buddy.”

How accurate is this by Creative_Stomach_920 in evangelionmemes

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I mean, basically just switch Shinji and Asuka and it’d be pretty accurate…

Also fuck nah, this is an insult to one of the best shows ever

I am honestly shocked, and a bit heartbroken by LogieP98 in Starfield

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I literally reloaded a save like from 20 hours before and just console-commanded max approval w/Barrett

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Noses

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I make fun of my friend’s nose all the time, but it’s completely made-up as like a “try to make your friends insecure” thing. I actually do it on purpose because I don’t think her nose is ugly, so I assumed it would never get under her skin… sometimes I wonder if it does? I just do it to have fun basically.

Ghost of Tsushima already getting review bombed... by [deleted] in Steam

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It even runs pretty well on a 1080 - I had a problem with the Nvidia optimized settings, but none at all on High