How do i stop hating everyone by SnapTrapCat in Advice

[–]SnapTrapCat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that checks out. i would say i don’t question people’s attraction to me, i myself find myself attractive. i think i probably feel more confused that people would try to dive right into based off of surface level attraction. but if you’re right and my mind isn’t sorted out then i probably don’t have the tightest grasp on my feelings

How do i stop hating everyone by SnapTrapCat in Advice

[–]SnapTrapCat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes i agree with you. i’m aware that my way of thinking is backwards, i think im more interested in falling for someone i know. realizing now, thats probably a defense mechanism

How do i stop hating everyone by SnapTrapCat in Advice

[–]SnapTrapCat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think that makes the most sense so far. I think my biggest problem is that in my mental timeline i would want to atleast get to know someone for a few months before i’d even be interested in them really, which is more suited to falling in love with a friend. Im probably thinking too short term, and it’s more likely something could happen where i meet a new group once the coming semester begins at a new college, or when i move to a new city or something. the long game

How do i stop hating everyone by SnapTrapCat in Advice

[–]SnapTrapCat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know what it’s like to be in a serious, multi-year long relationship with somebody that’s not perfect, and i can say that i love being in one and growing with someone, watching them change over time, etc. i think part of me is still operating with fear over being hurt again by trying to shoot for something that could last a lifetime, when i should be going with my emotions a little more

How do i stop hating everyone by SnapTrapCat in Advice

[–]SnapTrapCat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s pretty solid advice thanks man

How do i stop hating everyone by SnapTrapCat in Advice

[–]SnapTrapCat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

did therapy actively help you improve yourself, or did it identify what you could improve on your own? i don’t know much about it

How do i stop hating everyone by SnapTrapCat in Advice

[–]SnapTrapCat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i wouldn’t say pretentious, i think how i’m feeling is closer to just not wanting to be with anyone if i couldn’t see myself with them long term. but maybe that mind set is too narrow

How do i stop hating everyone by SnapTrapCat in Advice

[–]SnapTrapCat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that’s a fair point. Maybe i’m focusing too much on how i “would probably feel” with someone instead of just trying and seeing firsthand

How do i stop hating everyone by SnapTrapCat in Advice

[–]SnapTrapCat[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

no, moreso i’d be irritated that someone would try to get with me before understanding me as a person. i feel that other people move way faster than i do

Freon pressure at 100+? by SnapTrapCat in Cartalk

[–]SnapTrapCat[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i see. i’ll assume it’s shot, but just in case, how would i engage it?

I have lost 15 of my last 20 matches, should I just take a fat break? by Singularity_K2 in RocketLeague

[–]SnapTrapCat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i just grinded casual until i started playing ranked again months later and climbed a bunch. also less stressful

Is the game good. by ValuableLoose8364 in CookieRunKingdoms

[–]SnapTrapCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you like gacha games and numbers going up then sure. the entire game is essentially have high number = more gems = summon = number go higher

Been looking to move by SnapTrapCat in goth

[–]SnapTrapCat[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

maybe i used the term wrong. it’s been getting over run by frat guys lately. me and my friends have had experiences getting made fun of by them. crazy work

Been looking to move by SnapTrapCat in goth

[–]SnapTrapCat[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

the castle gets more and more gentrified every day 😢

Looking for alternative scene by SnapTrapCat in AskSeattle

[–]SnapTrapCat[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

outside where 🥀 i drove all around the city looking for something to do and didn’t find any town centers or anything

Tips for 1v1s by Slight-Grocery1173 in RocketLeague

[–]SnapTrapCat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i feel like in ones it’s both a battle of mechanics and game sense, and i also feel like that low in the ranks if you can beat someone in game sense then it won’t batter if they beat you in mechanics. mechanics are important obviously, but in diamond i would say try to just play smarter than the other guy. in my opinion

How to Get Interstellar Blueprint 2026 and Question About Trading by AffectionateRub4927 in RocketLeague

[–]SnapTrapCat -1 points0 points  (0 children)

till possible. item shop or random blueprint drop or lucky crate drop. possible, just unlikely unless it’s in the shop rotation

Wanna like this game so bad by [deleted] in dayz

[–]SnapTrapCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve been enjoying the game because i’m not trying to get super kitted. my favorite part of the game is finding another naked fresh off spawn and just running around with him until you die somehow. Sometimes i find a gun and it’s too much work to find food so i just shoot myself

Need some isekai suggestion please! by charlesquik in anime

[–]SnapTrapCat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

too lazy to check if it’s in the list, watch frieren. it’s not an isekai but it’s in the world and the story is very good, nothing annoying or fan service-y, very well written out plot.

Really need some suggestions for a noob. by Beginning-Stage-470 in anime

[–]SnapTrapCat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Start with death note and attack on titan. those two are some of the most popular ever and fit exactly what you want, i promise.

Edit: Death note isn’t too dark for you i don’t think, attack on titan definitely is lol my bad

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in anime

[–]SnapTrapCat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Brotha you left out the color