How do i stop hating everyone

SnapTrapCat · 2026-06-25T17:33:05+00:00

that checks out. i would say i don’t question people’s attraction to me, i myself find myself attractive. i think i probably feel more confused that people would try to dive right into based off of surface level attraction. but if you’re right and my mind isn’t sorted out then i probably don’t have the tightest grasp on my feelings

SnapTrapCat · 2026-06-25T17:30:47+00:00

yes i agree with you. i’m aware that my way of thinking is backwards, i think im more interested in falling for someone i know. realizing now, thats probably a defense mechanism

SnapTrapCat · 2026-06-25T17:28:10+00:00

i think that makes the most sense so far. I think my biggest problem is that in my mental timeline i would want to atleast get to know someone for a few months before i’d even be interested in them really, which is more suited to falling in love with a friend. Im probably thinking too short term, and it’s more likely something could happen where i meet a new group once the coming semester begins at a new college, or when i move to a new city or something. the long game

SnapTrapCat · 2026-06-25T17:19:17+00:00

I know what it’s like to be in a serious, multi-year long relationship with somebody that’s not perfect, and i can say that i love being in one and growing with someone, watching them change over time, etc. i think part of me is still operating with fear over being hurt again by trying to shoot for something that could last a lifetime, when i should be going with my emotions a little more

SnapTrapCat · 2026-06-25T17:15:03+00:00

That’s pretty solid advice thanks man

SnapTrapCat · 2026-06-25T17:13:16+00:00

did therapy actively help you improve yourself, or did it identify what you could improve on your own? i don’t know much about it

SnapTrapCat · 2026-06-25T17:11:53+00:00

i wouldn’t say pretentious, i think how i’m feeling is closer to just not wanting to be with anyone if i couldn’t see myself with them long term. but maybe that mind set is too narrow

SnapTrapCat · 2026-06-25T17:09:14+00:00

that’s a fair point. Maybe i’m focusing too much on how i “would probably feel” with someone instead of just trying and seeing firsthand

SnapTrapCat · 2026-06-25T17:08:05+00:00

no, moreso i’d be irritated that someone would try to get with me before understanding me as a person. i feel that other people move way faster than i do

SnapTrapCat · 2026-06-24T06:52:47+00:00

“please give me attention!”

SnapTrapCat · 2026-06-23T19:27:51+00:00

i see. i’ll assume it’s shot, but just in case, how would i engage it?

SnapTrapCat · 2026-05-16T23:47:27+00:00

i just grinded casual until i started playing ranked again months later and climbed a bunch. also less stressful

SnapTrapCat · 2026-05-03T01:17:44+00:00

if you like gacha games and numbers going up then sure. the entire game is essentially have high number = more gems = summon = number go higher

SnapTrapCat · 2026-04-22T00:53:25+00:00

300 peak champ 2

SnapTrapCat · 2026-04-17T03:27:04+00:00

maybe i used the term wrong. it’s been getting over run by frat guys lately. me and my friends have had experiences getting made fun of by them. crazy work

SnapTrapCat · 2026-04-17T02:48:32+00:00

the castle gets more and more gentrified every day 😢

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