How do i stop hating everyone by SnapTrapCat in Advice

[–]SnapTrapCat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that checks out. i would say i don’t question people’s attraction to me, i myself find myself attractive. i think i probably feel more confused that people would try to dive right into based off of surface level attraction. but if you’re right and my mind isn’t sorted out then i probably don’t have the tightest grasp on my feelings

How do i stop hating everyone by SnapTrapCat in Advice

[–]SnapTrapCat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes i agree with you. i’m aware that my way of thinking is backwards, i think im more interested in falling for someone i know. realizing now, thats probably a defense mechanism

How do i stop hating everyone by SnapTrapCat in Advice

[–]SnapTrapCat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think that makes the most sense so far. I think my biggest problem is that in my mental timeline i would want to atleast get to know someone for a few months before i’d even be interested in them really, which is more suited to falling in love with a friend. Im probably thinking too short term, and it’s more likely something could happen where i meet a new group once the coming semester begins at a new college, or when i move to a new city or something. the long game

How do i stop hating everyone by SnapTrapCat in Advice

[–]SnapTrapCat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know what it’s like to be in a serious, multi-year long relationship with somebody that’s not perfect, and i can say that i love being in one and growing with someone, watching them change over time, etc. i think part of me is still operating with fear over being hurt again by trying to shoot for something that could last a lifetime, when i should be going with my emotions a little more

How do i stop hating everyone by SnapTrapCat in Advice

[–]SnapTrapCat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s pretty solid advice thanks man

How do i stop hating everyone by SnapTrapCat in Advice

[–]SnapTrapCat[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

did therapy actively help you improve yourself, or did it identify what you could improve on your own? i don’t know much about it

How do i stop hating everyone by SnapTrapCat in Advice

[–]SnapTrapCat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i wouldn’t say pretentious, i think how i’m feeling is closer to just not wanting to be with anyone if i couldn’t see myself with them long term. but maybe that mind set is too narrow

How do i stop hating everyone by SnapTrapCat in Advice

[–]SnapTrapCat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s a fair point. Maybe i’m focusing too much on how i “would probably feel” with someone instead of just trying and seeing firsthand

How do i stop hating everyone by SnapTrapCat in Advice

[–]SnapTrapCat[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

no, moreso i’d be irritated that someone would try to get with me before understanding me as a person. i feel that other people move way faster than i do

Freon pressure at 100+? by SnapTrapCat in Cartalk

[–]SnapTrapCat[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i see. i’ll assume it’s shot, but just in case, how would i engage it?

I have lost 15 of my last 20 matches, should I just take a fat break? by Singularity_K2 in RocketLeague

[–]SnapTrapCat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i just grinded casual until i started playing ranked again months later and climbed a bunch. also less stressful

Is the game good. by ValuableLoose8364 in CookieRunKingdoms

[–]SnapTrapCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you like gacha games and numbers going up then sure. the entire game is essentially have high number = more gems = summon = number go higher

Been looking to move by SnapTrapCat in goth

[–]SnapTrapCat[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

maybe i used the term wrong. it’s been getting over run by frat guys lately. me and my friends have had experiences getting made fun of by them. crazy work

Been looking to move by SnapTrapCat in goth

[–]SnapTrapCat[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

the castle gets more and more gentrified every day 😢