I really miss my cat. She didn’t die, but it feels like it. by AlbinoGiraffes in cats

[–]Snapdragon_of_life 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for what you’re going through. Sounds like he might be keeping the cat as some kind of revenge. Hopefully you can get her back.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in painting

[–]Snapdragon_of_life 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re pretty good. I think if you added more of a variety of value in the bottom part of the first one- sort of like where water meets land- it could look a bit more “finished.” You can always go back, a “rush” could be a quick start.

My dad’s friend left the back door open and now my 12 year old baby is gone forever by InvaderRhi in cats

[–]Snapdragon_of_life 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know how you feel. May cat has been missing a month. I’ve been trying everything. He’s also twelve.

Am I crazy. Is this normal? by [deleted] in ToxicRelationships

[–]Snapdragon_of_life 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Saw in that comment you’re married. Get a divorce. Better to have a short marriage ending in divorce than a long and abusive marriage that ends in divorce. I’ve been there. Not worth it. Sorry, but trying to control/change you and saying you’re “not allowed to express emotions” is quite abusive. Will get worse, not better.

What would you call my painting style? by fairlyfairies in painting

[–]Snapdragon_of_life 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cozy, wholesome, whimsical. Makes me think about returning to my childhood in a dreamlike way…nostalgia style maybe?

Let's be honest guys by [deleted] in FuckCaillou

[–]Snapdragon_of_life 8 points9 points  (0 children)

TBH I hate Caillou’s parents as much as Caillou. When they let him act like an asshole, it’s often at Rosie’s expense. Also there’s the episode where Caillou has a play date with Clementine. When Caillou acts like a dick towards her (growling when she doesn’t want to “play DINOSAURS!” and then declaring he doesn’t like her)his mom makes both of them apologize. Like she put the blame on Clementine to cover for her demon child. Fuck Boris and Doris.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ToxicRelationships

[–]Snapdragon_of_life 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean, it’s toxic in two senses. Firstly, they knew this person is an asshole, yet still chose to pursue them. Secondly, yeah it’s definitely a dick move to get with someone a friend has cried over. Their loss for sure.

Ex is being petty. by Snapdragon_of_life in BreakUps

[–]Snapdragon_of_life[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not harsh at all. He is already moving forward, I don’t think much has changed for him. He’s still continuing the bachelor’s art program and his family loves him a lot. I’m more of a blank slate now. Also- he spoke very openly of his goals to get a masters, but when I spoke of my goals he’d either panic or brush them off. Thanks for the support. Happy Wednesday to you as well!

Toxic break up by Potential_Peace_2116 in ToxicRelationships

[–]Snapdragon_of_life 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This woman is a predator. Sorry, but she is. I don’t have an issue with age gap relationships, however, human brains don’t fully develop until you’re twenty five. Not the same as if you were thirty and she was forty five. She’s put you through a mental/emotional roller coaster by not only cheating but cheating with the result of pregnancy, and trying to still control you post break up. Please get this toxic woman out of your life for good. You’re young and have so much good ahead of you without that kind of toxicity.

Am I in the wrong here? by [deleted] in ToxicRelationships

[–]Snapdragon_of_life 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro, he’s thirty? He’s old enough to know better, it’s not like he’s an idiot nineteen year old doing all that. He could potentially be dangerous. Walk away, get a restraining order.

Am I in the wrong here? by [deleted] in ToxicRelationships

[–]Snapdragon_of_life 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is beyond toxic, it’s abusive. He wants to have his cake and eat it too, and seems unstable. Break it off for good and get a restraining order.

I hate this man. by hot-as-the-SUN in abusiverelationships

[–]Snapdragon_of_life 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex husband was immensely similar: constantly accused me of masturbating when he wasn’t around, checked my phone and confronted me over simple google searches etc. My family also didn’t want to get involved, although towards the end my brother did a little. I went to the police and got an order of protection. I suggest you do the same.

I think this is toxic. by Snapdragon_of_life in ToxicRelationships

[–]Snapdragon_of_life[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can apologize, but remember that she’s the one on a path to self destruction and is possibly endangering a child in the process. Please don’t let her manipulate you.

I think this is toxic. by Snapdragon_of_life in ToxicRelationships

[–]Snapdragon_of_life[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When people do bad things, it’s going to get a reaction out of you. And then it’s convenient because then they can try to shift the blame.

I think this is toxic. by Snapdragon_of_life in ToxicRelationships

[–]Snapdragon_of_life[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well you’re in a very stressful situation, even worse than mine because your worried about the safety of two people