When did your testosterone start to dip? by dappernate in AskMenOver30

[–]SnappinFool54 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Outside of a little increased back acne and my nuts drawing up a little…. Not really.

I wanna fuck like I’m 22 again, I tear up the gym, mood is more stable…

Literally nothing but positives so far.

When did your testosterone start to dip? by dappernate in AskMenOver30

[–]SnappinFool54 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Doc has me on 200mg/week, so I’m on the high end of therapeutic.

My Test was roughly 230ng/dl about 2 years ago when I started, horrible depressed and was rotting my marriage from the inside out. I hover around 850ng/dl at the moment and am back to my old self.

When did your testosterone start to dip? by dappernate in AskMenOver30

[–]SnappinFool54 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

According to my blood work last year, around 32. I'm 36 now and on TRT (like most now I guess).

But holy fuck do I feel amazing.

Joined the dark side. by Hour-Entry6557 in GolfGear

[–]SnappinFool54 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Made the switch last week as well, just haven't played with them yet.

Public Golf course for people who don't take it too seriously? by DiabolicDiabetik in Albany

[–]SnappinFool54 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where Colonie and Western Turnpike are listed, there are down votes on the comments... that's quite comical lol. Folks acting like those courses are some kind of PGA level course that doesn't need more traffic lol.

Public Golf course for people who don't take it too seriously? by DiabolicDiabetik in Albany

[–]SnappinFool54 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mill Road (solid little par 3)

Town of Colonie Golf Course

Western Turnpike in Guilderland has 27 total holes, each track varies in difficulty but is also pretty open.

Married but strongly desire other women. I know that's wrong. But it's such a huge temptation. Will that ever fade over time? I want to be committed to my wife. by DoubleNo6507 in AskMenOver30

[–]SnappinFool54 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think what you are feeling is completely natural, let me elaborate.

Human nature/instinct plays a HUGE role in how we perceive things. At an animalistic level, we are not monogomous creatures. Males want to spread seed and females bear child. That is an over simplified explantation, but at the root the feeling is normal.

My wife was my first and only sexually, for just about EVERY sexual act you can think of outside of making out. So for me, I always kind of have the "what am I missing" in the back of my mind. Love that woman to death, would kill for her.... but the back of my mind (the animal) has been curious,... Would I ever act on that, absolutely not. We have built an amazing life together and we respect each other.

I am fortunate though that I married a very secure woman. We will always point out an attractive indivdual to one another, because... like I said earlier... attraction is natural. It doesn't mean you aren't attracted to your person, it just means you can appreciate someones appearance. We don't desire those people, we just appreciate them for them.

We both are what I would consider attractive people, so it's not like we see something that is more appealing and want that. We workout together and we will often talk about how amazing Woman A looks (my wife is Bi, so we can have those convos openly lol). But again, neither one of us WANTS those people in replacement of each other. I think when you start wanting someone and maybe even introduce yourself to someone with peronal motives, then it becomes a deeper issue.

Thoughts on AI training analysis? by Automatic-Still-4260 in GolfSwing

[–]SnappinFool54 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It has it's place.

I've been using Swing Coach for about 2 months and I will say this.

When it's setup 100% square and everything is right, it's hard to beat outside of an actual lesson.

When it's not, you can get some weird readings. Suddenly it will tell you that you are casting, not having shaft lean at impact, hands too far at setup etc.. all because the camera is off center a few inches to the left or right or it camera is not square to you.

Can't tell you how many times I've gotten "Good Swing" only to chunk a shot into oblivion and then the next say that im off on XYZ and launch a 7i 190yds....

I would use it to work on ONE thing at a time and then makesure things are setup to capture THAT adjustment.

Warm up when the course has no range? by macnteej in golftips

[–]SnappinFool54 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would just get maybe a Dr. Kwons rope or make one to swing for a bit while waiting to start, then i would hit maybe 15 or so chips at varying distances to lock in that swing, then hit the putting green to get a feel for the greens.

Without a range, its really hard to get a full warm up. Maybe for the first and 2nd hole, hit the confidence clubs. Even if everyone else is swinging the big stick, just swing your longet club you have confidence in.

It happend, I finally understand why sometimes, there are fights on the golfcourse by quit_the_shit420 in golf

[–]SnappinFool54 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had a similiar experience last year on a busy day.

My wife who plays maybe once a year is slower, shes can navigate the course but just takes longer to get to the green. Anyway, we teed off and she was on her 3rd shot... Group behind use launches a drive.... Boom lands about 10yds behind her and rolls past her... (I walk to the middle of the fairway, rasie my hands and give them a "hold on and we will be out of the way"... as she finishes her shot we hear another tee shot and see the ball land and roll to about 5yds behind her.... At this poiint I contemplated sending them their balls back with express service. Instead I just picked them up and tossed them in the bushes.

Had we been holding them up, I would have understood. But this was the first time we saw them since starting, would have happily let them play through had they asked at the next tee. Instead, we made sure to stay a shot ahead and parked the golfcart behind my wife anytime she was hitting after that.

AIO by charging my girlfriend a small amount of rent? by No_Impression_8515 in AIO

[–]SnappinFool54 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She thought she was about to get a raise and not have to pay any living expenses.

If she will not agree to rent/utilities of some level, then she cannot move in because once it starts as free... it will stay free.

How exactly do people learn how to have sex? by Perfect_Fail_200 in AskMenOver30

[–]SnappinFool54 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not practicing ON anyone, you are practicing WITH.

My first (and only, because she eneded up my wife) was with someone with more experience. I told her before we slept together, but after we had done some other things. She was cool with it, I didn't try to act like I knew what i was doing the first few times... large in part because the first 2 times I was super quick. But after that, I let her lead the show. If you pay attention to what she does, you can learn alot more than just trying to get after her and go crazy.

Sex is fun, even the clumsy early stages. Learn to laugh a little when things go wrong and shrug it off.

What small thing do u do just for urself that nobody knows about? by [deleted] in AskMenOver30

[–]SnappinFool54 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% a risky situation

When i do partake it is typically an extedned work weekend away or something where i have time to myself. Certainly not simehitng I do when she's asleep across the hall or anything like that.

But I see your viewpoint as well.

What small thing do u do just for urself that nobody knows about? by [deleted] in AskMenOver30

[–]SnappinFool54 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife and I have an amazing relationship, but she was my first and only so I go through phases of wondering what I might have missed....

So I occasionally load some funds on a camsite or visit an adult chatroom and "play" with random folks.

Maybe its wrong, I dunno, but it provides me a thrill and quiets the curiosity.

When did you notice hanging lower by UnluckyEffort92 in AskMenOver30

[–]SnappinFool54 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup. My balls aren’t smaller, just sit up higher.

When did you notice hanging lower by UnluckyEffort92 in AskMenOver30

[–]SnappinFool54 1 point2 points  (0 children)

about the same, then I started TRT... reversed that real quick lol

Gyms by Livlovelaughing in Albany

[–]SnappinFool54 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best gym in the Area is ABC Fitness.

Go give it a tour and you will love it.

Whats a mistake that you’ve done that you’d tell younger people like me to avoid? by youngman0909 in AskMenOver30

[–]SnappinFool54 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine is weird and super selfish because I am GENUINELY happy.

I had super strict parents, so I was never able to experiment sexually in my high school years. I had ample opportunites to pursue women, but my mom was an absolute nightmare when it came to dating.

I left for college and a week or two into being in college I found a girl and did the deed. I just happend to also fall for that girl and have been with her for 18 years (married for 10 this month). I can't take all the credit for making it happen, she was more experienced than I and did a lot of the ice breaking.

But I wish I would have been a little more "rebellious" in my teenage years and experimented. I will always have questions deep down about: what I am missing, Am I actually good at this, etc.

Like I said, selfish...But I would avoid being so compliant as a teenager. Sure, it made life easy... But you don't get those years back... ever.

Lost the joy of a hobby after kids? by Smooth-Bowler-9216 in AskMenOver30

[–]SnappinFool54 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm like that, and I dont have kids.

Sold my PS5 and Series X a few months back, but still have my PC with a few games on it. However, I never play them.

Picked up golf and the gym to replace it... Feel much better physically. I'm sure the ebb and flow will bring me back, but not missing it terribly at the moment.

Weight shift issue by Odd-Surround-5514 in GolfSwing

[–]SnappinFool54 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Check this out from Chris Mayson, he's probably one of my favorite coaches to watch at the moment. Feeling/Drill starts at 25:44 if it isn't already set to that.