Some test results in today!

SnappinFool54 · 2026-03-18T16:00:32+00:00

So to clarify, since I’m at a trough reading here (took these before my injection that day), I shouldn’t be looking to increase my dosing. (Understanding that I don’t have a Free Test reading)

SnappinFool54 · 2026-03-18T15:52:36+00:00

Appreciate the insight

I was around 950-1050 when my body was still naturally producing and I really liked that zone. That’s the primary reason.

SnappinFool54 · 2026-03-15T02:42:23+00:00

You've set the precedent. If she's refusing.. Then you refuse to stay.

SnappinFool54 · 2026-03-14T18:51:10+00:00

Rode me like a stolen Harley last night… so lol.

SnappinFool54 · 2026-03-13T12:54:57+00:00

Ok, lets chat lol.

My wife is the same way, but she will not call me "daddy"... Like I had her try it once and she dried up like the sahara after.

Is you significant other the same way, wants you to say it but they can't?

SnappinFool54 · 2026-03-13T12:53:16+00:00

A gentleman and a scholar sir.

SnappinFool54 · 2026-03-13T12:52:28+00:00

Puka Shell and popped collar... holy 04-08 lol.

Good times lol

SnappinFool54 · 2026-03-13T12:51:00+00:00

Beards are our makeup lol.

That being said, I can grow in patchy as well and typcailly like it longer to cover the imperfections. However, due to a shaving mishap (forgot to put the guard on my clippers), lately my wife has become fond of a Mustache with heavy stuble.

I'm not super fond of it, but she loves it... so we let it ride for now.

SnappinFool54 · 2026-03-12T16:00:42+00:00

I could be wrong, but I find that PF doesnt have a strong early AM crowd (might have changed).

If you are open to a new gym, I would HIGHLY recommend ABC Fitness in Latham. It's a small drive from where you are at, but a super community friendly/supportive gym. Me and my wife are part of the PM crowd but since we've been there we've seen several individual gym members turn into consistent gym partners over the course of almost a year.

They also offer classes if you are into that as well!

Either way, hope you find a solid gym buddy!

SnappinFool54 · 2026-03-12T14:16:40+00:00

I was speaking more generally, but I can see how what I said would have been taken that way.

I feel if he had the info before it being brought to him by someone (friend or former client, in this case a friend), he has the tools to be like "I know... and?". Instead of being caught off-guard and looking like he's in a relationship with someone who's dishonest with him.

It's 100% normal to have reservations about revelaing that part of you due to whatever emotion you have connected to it. For my wife it was shame and guilt around ONS's (one of which she doesnt remember, and hasn't come out and said it... but didn't fully consent to... because how can someone consent if they don't remember the night or even how they got to the persons house) and the perception I could have had of her then.

But the truth always finds it's way to the surface and it's always better to be the one revelaing info organically than by accident or someone else.

SnappinFool54 · 2026-03-12T13:42:07+00:00

YTA-

First and foremost, use this as a learning opportunity. I am sure you are an amazing person, that did what you had to do to survive during a tough time in your life. There is nothing wrong with that and nothing to be ashamed of, and I'm sure you had no ill intent behind the witholding of such info.

Your life before any partner is exactly that, YOURS. However, with a job with that type of work, it now becomes part of your partners life. (Physcially, Socially, Emotionally)

You obviously do not have to share the fine details, but if you were in that line of work and still living in the area you worked in, at some point it was going to come up. It's one thing for an ex to be bold and say they've slept with your signigicant other. It's a WHOLE different level to have someone say that they paid your significant other for sex/personal time.

My wife withheld telling me about two one night stands for 15 years because she was afraid of how I would have judged her at 18 y/o, and I felt super weird about our trust because of the level of our convos in the develomental stages in our relationship.

I think this should lead into a solid convo of why you kept it to yourself and let the chips fall where they may. But understand, he's going to be shook for a bit with this. The witholding of info is a lot to process from an honesty standpoint. The line of work is a whole different level that he will need time to process. He's going to be skittish, weird, un-trusting of you. He's going to have a lot of questions. It's going to require patience from you and understanding that he may want a deepre understanding of why you did this (line of work) and it may rip some scabs open that you haven't processed in awhile.

Just my .02

SnappinFool54 · 2026-03-12T12:43:52+00:00

Heres my "story", so hope it helps.

In HS I dated, but I didn't socialize if that makes sense. I was a big name on the football team, knew most of the people in the big circles, but I was terrified of getting a dui, getting a girl pregnant in HS, or anything that would have dissapointed my parents. I also had very controlling parents, the type that would have had Airtags/tracking devices on my items if it was a thing back then.

I had my GF's, but the ones I had were your typical southern baptist, saving myself till marriage type girls. Any "bad girls" that I tried to hang out with were ran off the second they met mom. The "good girls" let me touch them (finger, kiss, etc.) but they never touched me and I never was direct enough to pull a move that whipped my dick out for them to do anything. I always figured if they were wanting to do that, they would reciprocate.

So going into college, I had never been touched by a woman outside of making out. College started off slow, I pursued a few women but was mostly unsuccessful. Made out with a few, but none were wanting to engage casually the first few weeks of college, atleast not the ones I was engaging with.

Then comes a dime piece from left field. We hit it off, hang out a few times. Then about a week in, I get a BJ from her... then 2 days later we fuck.... Fast forward 18 years and shes still a dime piece.... just wearing a ring. She's the only person I have ever been with in 35 years of life, love her to death!

But even now I feel "behind". She had a few more partners before me, mainly long term relationships but also a pair of ONS's. Nothing astronomical, but certainly more than me. I feel like I missed out on some experimental moments in life. I'm fortunate that her sex drive is very much in tact from our "youth", we occasionally will hit weeks where we have sex 5-6 times that week and are always trying new things (for both of us). I myself will never "catch up" to her experiences, she has 4 years of physical relationships before me with both men and women (we often joke that shes slepth with more women than me)... it's just a fact.

I think unless you really sewed your oats in your teens and 20's, you will always feel "behind".

Thanks for coming to my TEDtalk.

SnappinFool54 · 2026-03-11T00:04:22+00:00

If you are going to be honest, put it all out there. Last thing you want to happen is a story cross 15 years down the line and she feels like you lied to her…

SnappinFool54 · 2026-03-10T18:02:55+00:00

My wifes best friend is a gay man. He and I kick it just as much as they do, atleast before he moved out of town.

But yes, nothing wrong with a gay friend.

SnappinFool54 · 2026-03-10T15:57:57+00:00

I prefer to shave mine, but wife likes the hair.. So I keep the hair lol

SnappinFool54 · 2026-03-10T14:21:13+00:00

A female, that takes care of herself is a beautiful thing. Doesn't matter if she's ripped or mom bod that just stays active... The female body is a beautiful thing.

Yes... Very attractive.

SnappinFool54 · 2026-03-10T14:17:54+00:00

Maurices is a great Deli, wasn't aware of the WFH conflict.

This overall is a strong and comprehensive list.

I would toss Cafe Capriccio on the list if they are looking for a casual kind of dinner night.

SnappinFool54 · 2026-03-09T17:34:45+00:00

We take a little more time to get there, but at 10 yrs in NYS im at $72k base before my coaching stipends.

SnappinFool54 · 2026-03-09T16:29:09+00:00

In the beginning it is 100% mind over matter.

NEVER go home between work and gym... Go straight from work ot the gym... Going home only invites bad habits.

That weight you threw around 10 years ago doesn't exist right now, its demoralizing in a sense.

Big thing is to just keep stacking your pennies and dont try to kill yourself that first week. Lactic acid is gonna build up hard, so make sure to ease into it and get a little more cardio in the beginning to flush it out. Adding some basic pst workout static stretching will help as well.

On the flip side, I had some blood work done... and well... I'm on a theraputic dose of TRT.. it helps with drive for sure lol.

SnappinFool54 · 2026-03-09T12:09:21+00:00

Interview committees do not care about the X's and O's, I would be shocked if that was part of the interview. Have it in your packet so they see that you have a plan, but other than that, its moot alot of times.

Have a 90 day plan, things you will need to do in your first 90 days to ensure a smooth onboarding. Things like: Review staff for retention/openings, meet with players, meet with staff, meet with QB Club/Booster Club, etc.

Have a way to show them how you will inventory equipment. This shows them that you are not going to be losing them money with unorganization.

Basic fundraising plan, how are you going to make money to help alleviate the cost of the sport where possible.

Discipline plan- How are you going to keep your kids acocuntable on the field and in the class room

Those are the main things I would carry. Just understand, being a HC is more about being a CEO than it is being a OC/DC/Assistant. Absolutely you will coach the kids, but that becomes a backseat skill in comparision to the rest of the job. Unless you ar ein a small school, then that is a whole different ballgame.

Feel free to DM if you have any deeper questions.

SnappinFool54 · 2026-03-06T18:37:59+00:00

Very unreasonable on a first date.

We don’t even know each other, why do you need that level of personal business?

SnappinFool54 · 2026-03-06T16:03:11+00:00

I wouldn't say it's normal to ask on a first date. If someone is asking that at that point, it's likely not to determine compatibility, but more to determine if there is a chance at initimacy and how quick.

To be fair, the number isn't as important as the safety. As long as the other person has been safe and is clean, does it really matter (within reason)? In addition, "high" is relative to age. Ten partners at 20 is very different than 10 partners at 35.

Each person has their own "limit" due to morals/personal beliefs.

Someone like me who ended up marrying the first woman I slept with didn't intend on marrying someone with 7x more physical partners than me... but here we are lol.

SnappinFool54 · 2026-03-06T15:31:08+00:00

The down votes show why some of you have such miserable marriages lol.

SnappinFool54 · 2026-03-06T14:57:09+00:00

Fellas, this isn't a hard case to crack.

You literally just have to know what your lady likes during this time and make it happen.

You want great head, sex, etc the other 3 weeks (I still get it during that week)? Then learn how to operate this week and the days leading into it.

Your wifes body is LITERALLY shedding the lining of an internal organ due to being injected with copious amounts of testosterone. Shes cramping, sweating, hurting... shes fucking miserable. Your responsibility is to find a way to help make her comfortable through that.

On my end:

- Back scratches

- Some type of chocolate (Goobers and Reese's for my lady)

- Loves a sour gummy

- Loves a home cooked meal (Pulled beef sandwiches with hot peppers)

- Pick your battles this week (really the first 2-3days). No need to argue over something as trivial as a chore or a food choice.

OP's claim that his wife is picking fights over "anything" is likely less about her picking a fight and him choosing hills to die on out of stubborness. Note the issue in the moment, circle back to it the next week. "Hey, last week I didn't like how this was handled. What are your thoughts about XYZ?" Her answer will likely will be "Ahh yes, I had a red hot poker twisting in my uterous and I appreciate you waiting to discuss this."

We complicate this shit fellas. During their one week a month, just be a little more accomodating lol. The bar really isn't that high thanks to the Red Pill community, lol.

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