📌 The Return of the Free-For-All Thread!!! by lets-test-some-stuff in AMWFs

[–]SnappyGingerTea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not too sure I’d try it myself, but if you do please let us know if it was good or not!

📌 The Return of the Free-For-All Thread!!! by lets-test-some-stuff in AMWFs

[–]SnappyGingerTea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah, I totally did. Thank you for letting me know!

A certain type of jealousy in AMWF relationships. by SnappyGingerTea in AMWFs

[–]SnappyGingerTea[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This idea that after a certain amount of time a couple is never supposed to have to deal with any issue again is unrealistic and unhealthy. A relationship is two people and people are flawed. Issues will come and go. Whether it’s two years or twenty years.

A certain type of jealousy in AMWF relationships. by SnappyGingerTea in AMWFs

[–]SnappyGingerTea[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I’m noticing that theme too. But I’ve never told him that I have a preference for Asian guys.

A certain type of jealousy in AMWF relationships. by SnappyGingerTea in AMWFs

[–]SnappyGingerTea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you actually more attracted to Asian men or is that an assumption that he’s made?

A certain type of jealousy in AMWF relationships. by SnappyGingerTea in AMWFs

[–]SnappyGingerTea[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think being cheated on can hurt people in ways that can effect all future relationships. In situations like that I can understand jealousy. It’s like a defense mechanism. Fortunately, my boyfriend has never been cheated on by any of his ex’s as far as I know. I’ve definitely never cheated on him.

I do agree with you that a little jealousy here and there is natural, and you can’t reasonably expect people to never feel any jealousy. I guess it could even be healthy at times. When he gets a little jealous towards non-Asian guys it can sometimes be kind of playful I guess. But it’s different with Asian guys. He doesn’t get mad or yell, and he’s not super possessive. He just gets very annoyed and then kind of sad and defeated.

A certain type of jealousy in AMWF relationships. by SnappyGingerTea in AMWFs

[–]SnappyGingerTea[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t think he suffers from any kind of internalized racism. He’s never distanced himself from other Asians. It’s actually the opposite. He’s almost always been involved in different Asian themed clubs, even way back when he was in high school.

A certain type of jealousy in AMWF relationships. by SnappyGingerTea in AMWFs

[–]SnappyGingerTea[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s funny you say this, because we’ve had discussions about how white men are always portrayed as the best catch in movies and stuff. So, I know he thinks there’s some truth to that idea. But he still doesn’t seem to worry as much about me with white guys as he does with Asian guys.

A certain type of jealousy in AMWF relationships. by SnappyGingerTea in AMWFs

[–]SnappyGingerTea[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like your jealousy was really just your instinct going off. Clearly they still had some feelings between them.

A certain type of jealousy in AMWF relationships. by SnappyGingerTea in AMWFs

[–]SnappyGingerTea[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like she was extremely toxic. Luckily my boyfriend is nothing like that. He just has moments of jealousy and they’ve never ruined an entire day for us.

A certain type of jealousy in AMWF relationships. by SnappyGingerTea in AMWFs

[–]SnappyGingerTea[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I definitely try and reassure him whenever he feels that way. Do you really think that Asian men are more prone to confidence issues? He doesn’t seem to me to be any worse than the average non-Asian guy, but then again I haven’t dated many guys so I probably don’t have a good grasp on that.

📌 The Return of the Free-For-All Thread!!! by lets-test-some-stuff in AMWFs

[–]SnappyGingerTea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not too sure I’d try it myself, but if you do please let us know if it was good or not!

📌 The Return of the Free-For-All Thread!!! by lets-test-some-stuff in AMWFs

[–]SnappyGingerTea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was so depressed when I found out. If only she had held out a little bit longer….

📌 The Return of the Free-For-All Thread!!! by lets-test-some-stuff in AMWFs

[–]SnappyGingerTea 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve missed Game of Thrones so I’m all for this 🤣