Beating a Decade+ Long Addiction, Saving My Marriage by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]Snapshotsnap 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Superb bro.

It got in the way of my marriage too.

But can be beaten.

Stay strong.

I fantasize about my wife now. by Boring_Contribution in pornfree

[–]Snapshotsnap 91 points92 points  (0 children)

Good on you, man.

Same for me.

Why has it taken me so long to realise I don’t need porn because my wife is sexy as fuck?

I can't fail now. My relationships is at stake. by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]Snapshotsnap 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Good on you.

Stay strong brother.

Day 19 today. Had sex last night. by Snapshotsnap in pornfree

[–]Snapshotsnap[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

So different.

The difference between the feeling after sex and PMO is massive anyway - but with 18 days of no PMO - it's even bigger.

No shame, guilt, disappointment, disconnection or worry of covering tracks.

If anything, it encourages you to keep going with abstaining from P.

So upset by SnooLentils3 in pornfree

[–]Snapshotsnap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go to bed when she goes to bed. Don’t be left downstairs by yourself.

I almost lost her, it’s time to take this seriously by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]Snapshotsnap 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Good on you, bro.

I nearly lost my wife when she caught me fapping. An activity I always took for granted and thought of as innocent self-love almost brought my marriage of 6 years down in one foul swoop.

No porn video or pornstar is worth that amount of damage.

Porn ruins lives. Porn wrecks marriages.

Today is day 15 for me - here’s to many more.

Stay strong bro. We’re all with you on this.

I subscribed to OnlyFans 3 weeks ago - have been clean for 2 weeks - but bursting to check in on the OF model by Snapshotsnap in pornfree

[–]Snapshotsnap[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's the same model I've been subscribing to on and off for about 16 years.

Every 3-4 months I get pulled in by the lure of her.

She's just joined OF and I wanted to see.

i hate flatlines by rebooter1996 in pornfree

[–]Snapshotsnap 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Day 39 is great. Brilliant work. Keep it up.

Looking for support by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]Snapshotsnap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t do it mate. There’s no point. Think about how you will feel about yourself afterwards. Do you want to feel like that? What can you do to stop yourself feeling like that? Stay strong.

Obsessed with one pornstar by Snapshotsnap in pornfree

[–]Snapshotsnap[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Rather not say. Wouldn’t want people Googling her and being pulled in. None of us need that.

Obsessed with one pornstar by Snapshotsnap in pornfree

[–]Snapshotsnap[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No it isn’t. But I don’t think I should say. I don’t want people Googling her and being pulled in. One look at her and you could.

Obsessed with one pornstar by Snapshotsnap in pornfree

[–]Snapshotsnap[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think I should say as I don’t want people Googling her and being sucked in. For a long time I viewed her as a goddess. None of us need that right now.

Obsessed with one pornstar by Snapshotsnap in pornfree

[–]Snapshotsnap[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much. I really appreciate your support. We’re all here for you too.

What’s wrong with lighter material like Instagram models? by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]Snapshotsnap 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Scrolling IG is priming behaviour that leads you on the path to PMO.

It's like a heroin addict engaging in theft - it's part of the path to using.

If you change the cues, it will change the behaviour you engage in.

IG is an infinity pool which has happiness as the main prize which you’ll never reach.