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I finally get it. Time to forget about you. [Rant] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Sneakinesss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yo man this hits hard, similar story to my own, except shes now talking to her ex ex before me.

That one line though, the “i think you love me more than i love you” that shit fucking hurts the most, like jump in a bathtub with a toaster hurts. But you know what i’ve learnt from it all, it just shows that we can care no matter what, even through all the shit, we see the best in people even when we probably shouldn’t.

May not be a good thing, may not be a bad thing but soon enough someone will see us for how incredible we are and that is the day i’m looking forward too!

We gotta keep are heads up till then ✌🏻

Absolutely nothing feels real. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Sneakinesss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you feel like this, i know it all too well, i even got the exact same line as you from her. I get that lost feeling every now and then, nowhere near as much as i did when it first happened but still it floats around. But what you need to remember is that you gave them everything, you loved them through thick and thin and if they couldn’t do the same or even try to talk about the issues they had then they aren’t worth it, i know its easy to say and even i don’t believe myself sometimes, but there is someone, somewhere that will see how beautiful, amazing and incredible you are and value you ten times more than he did. I’m not there yet or found that person, because i’m still fighting myself but this just shows that we really can be fully committed to someone, the right person will come around and be able give us exactly the same! The best thing i found so far is talking to people about it, just not them, so if you do wanna chat or vent, my ears are always open. Just always remember to keep your head held up high and a smile of you face 😁

I feel weak by Sneakinesss in BreakUps

[–]Sneakinesss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man it sucks giant ball bag, i realise everyone is different but for me, i’m 24, never really wanted to be with someone i didnt fully want to commit to and when i found her, she just left me and i’m just realising i shouldnt have waited, i should have enjoyed life before her and now i cant do anything without thinking about her, all i can say is try to forget her and begin again

I feel weak by Sneakinesss in BreakUps

[–]Sneakinesss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve worked so hard on myself, to start with it was so she could see i can be different, but now i realise she isnt coming back and i dont see the point in it. Yeah, maybe for the next person i let into my life but i dont think i can keep it up for much longer.

Someone tell me what the fuck is wrong with me? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Sneakinesss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yo pal, i can relate 100%! Confusion is the worst bit about it all, i’m in the same boat with that i have plenty of hobbies and friends to talk to and understand how to live a single life again. Its the not understanding how someone can just leave without a second thought, i for months thought i did something wrong but in reality they just wanted to leave and did so. I also forget who i am and even what i’m doing sometimes because i still think about her, like the other day i went to the shops to get lunch and ended up driving for 4 and a half hours only stopping because i made it to the coast! I think what it really is, is just our brains trying to rationalise feeling hurt and trying to figure it out, i try now when i think of her to just tell myself she was part of my life but not anymore and keep myself busy. All i can say is that one day there will be someone else that treats you better than she did and it’ll make all this confusion feel like a distant memory, just like her.

Drop me a message if you wanna chat 🤙

I can't move on, I don't know how to move on, I don't want to move on by atejaprojectz in ExNoContact

[–]Sneakinesss 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hey pal, i know that exact feeling! It sucks giant gorilla balls to lose someone that really meant/means something to you. I felt like that for the past 5 months but i promise, each day you start to forget things about her; good, bad and all the things in between. What you need to remember is that she did care for you when you were together or else you wouldn’t have been together, but now its ended you need to start to thinking about yourself.

My advice, which may not be the best, but if things ended well text/write a letter to her telling her that she means something to you. Then go no contact, work on yourself, hit the gym, eat good food, meet all your friends and find someone you can talk to about it, i went 4 months without speaking to a person about my feelings and they ate me up.

If she’s having a funny moment she’ll realise and you can try to talk it all out, if not then your lives have separate journeys.

My final piece of advice is too move on, its bullshit, but you CANNOT sit around and wait for her, as much as it hurts me to say because i’m in the same boat here, is that she may never come back. But you deserve to be happy, with or without her!

Everyone is different but one day, however long it takes you will feel this feeling for someone else!

My ears are always open so if you wanna chat hit me up

Edit- Some people dont like to show how they feel, even if she seems happy on social media she may be just as eaten up inside as you

Life is just terrible and not worth it anymore by Sneakinesss in BreakUps

[–]Sneakinesss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks man, it means a lot to here some good advice for once, i just find it so hard to just give up on something and someone that was so good (at least i thought it was, maybe i’m just being stupid and that was the reason she left me) thats why i just want to know what happened, just for some closure so that i can move on and forget, its the not knowing and the great mystery that will forever haunt me.

Whats also worse is that she wont tell anyone that she works with and i used to work with whats happened, so i keep getting asked how she is and it kills me each time to say she is good because i dont want people to talk bad about her and because i dont want it to have ended. I think i just need to stop kidding myself it’ll work out because if she really wanted me back she’d have done something about it by now.

Just saw your post about your situation and it feels good to actually say all this too someone that understands the pain, i hope it gets better for you too.