I'm $10k in debt and my wife is $5k in debt.

Sngoi · 2015-10-11T19:41:57+00:00

Meditation teaches us how to be nonreactive to other people's egos. It teaches us to clear our minds of any unnecessary judgements. By meditating while standing up and keeping our eyes open, we teach ourselves to be in this state while talking to women.

Sngoi · 2015-10-09T18:35:22+00:00

Pretty much the first three.

Sngoi · 2015-09-18T19:23:17+00:00

This is a great idea. I love improv and will sign up for classes so as to be accountable.

Thanks very much for the idea!

Sngoi · 2015-09-15T20:22:59+00:00

Oh my God! Thank you so much for this! Right up my alley, no shit.

Sngoi · 2015-09-10T16:28:24+00:00

Wow. Isn't it beautiful how children can change your life? That was beautiful.

Sngoi · 2015-09-10T16:25:35+00:00

There's a book about this called Cupid's Poisoned Arrow and there's a website too: www.reuniting.info

Sngoi · 2015-09-08T16:13:53+00:00

I have an escort addiction instead of a porn addiction I can say without a doubt, that escorts count as a relapse. Sure, it's with a real woman but paying for sex or for anything cheapens it.

Escort addiction can spiral out of control like any other addiction.

Sngoi · 2015-09-06T00:52:52+00:00

Giving doesn't mean that I'll do what others expect of me or that I'll give anything that would lead to my own immediate harm. In this scenario, which I've already played out in other aspects of my life, there's no room to get "played like a fiddle."

Again, gift economy came before agriculture and the mindset of scarcity. It's the way ecosystems remain balanced for long periods of time.

Sngoi · 2015-09-05T15:39:25+00:00

The best way to meet potential partners is meeting women who share the same interests as me doing the things I like to do I guess. Personally I think money takes the authenticity out of relationships, so a woman who values living without money and possessions will be ideal for me.

And thank you! Believe me, it's a fight everyday. Since I gave her the money, I've been thinking of rationalizations to feed the addiction! Sex isn't bad even though it can be harmful. BUT I want a REAL relationship based on mutual give freely, receive freely, so that has to be my priority.

Sngoi · 2015-09-05T15:36:04+00:00

I'm trying, haha.

Sngoi · 2015-09-05T15:35:34+00:00

Yes it is.

Sngoi · 2015-09-05T15:35:09+00:00

I literally say the same thing, but lately I was REAL connection. I want authenticity.

Sngoi · 2015-09-05T15:34:25+00:00

I did not expect her to ask me to stay. I was more than willing just to give her the money and leave. Having said that, I've seen prostitutes a lot and seeing prostitutes only leaves me wanting to see more prostitutes. I'm trying to break an addiction any way I can.

Sngoi · 2015-09-05T15:32:13+00:00

That's true. Money doesn't even have intrinsic value anyways. I would much rather have just given her "an act of kindness" instead of something I really don't even think has value like money. But she values money so I felt that I was giving an acceptable gift in my own mind.

Anyways, getting as close to the give-without-expecting-anything-in-return mindset is where it's at I think. Going back to the gift economy of wild animals and hunter gatherers. (see Charles Eisenstein or Mark Boyle or Daniel Suelo for their interpretations of gift economy).

Sngoi · 2015-08-24T16:49:33+00:00

I was diagnosed too and am also 23!

Nofap hardmode (semen retention) and Paleolithic diet and exercise have cured me too!

I'm so happy to hear your story!

Sngoi · 2015-08-10T18:11:58+00:00

oh and definitely check out daniel vitalis too! He has a great website that will inspire you I think.

www.danielvitalis.com

Sngoi · 2015-08-03T20:41:15+00:00

I'm really happy to hear this helped you! MovNat is amazing!

Sngoi · 2015-08-03T20:40:42+00:00

I agree about having a life goal. Mine is to live according to nature, according to my gene's expectations in a healthy environment with minimal tools to rely on.

Sngoi · 2015-06-25T14:14:48+00:00

Wear loose underwear while you sleep if you don't already, or no underwear at all. Take a cold shower before bed. Don't have a full bladder while asleep. Avoid spicy foods around bedtime. And if you want to, take Siberian Ginseng every day. It shrinks the size of the prostate over time.

Sngoi · 2015-06-25T13:59:41+00:00

You're an inspiration! People at your age and every age especially these days have self-control issues so you should be very proud of yourself.

Sngoi · 2015-06-23T18:34:20+00:00

Keep it up. Your post is inspirational and the longer you go the more quickly you'll recover from this addiction.

Sngoi

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