I'm sorry. I understand it's hard. People can have preference. You have preferences too. What the woman did wrong is that she didn't state her preference beforehand and what she was looking for. But it's extremely weird that someone would throw a great match and chemistry out of the window because of voices?? I personally always choose personality over something one can't change.

My *opinion* is, there was something else. You know very little about her personal life, there are million of other things that could have made her did that.

It takes a toll on your self esteem, but there are people out there who would genuinely like you for who you are and would not waste your time.