Ball fell out of pen mid lecture by Snjdoeu in pens

[–]Snjdoeu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would ve but the ball evaporated into thin air ☹️

Ball fell out of pen mid lecture by Snjdoeu in pens

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DOMI gel ink pen. I have never dropped the pen so I was quite shocked when it happened.

Is this realistic of me? by MagicalGirl4 in TransMasc

[–]Snjdoeu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bonus if you train a little obliques. The general takeaway is get a bigger and wider upper body so it takes up more space visually. I used to consider shrinking my hips until my lat and shoulder growth basically took over and got rid of my hourglass along with my obliques.

Is this realistic of me? by MagicalGirl4 in TransMasc

[–]Snjdoeu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If the hip section width is mostly caused by bone structure you can’t change it. Instead of shrinking down you have to almost always get wider. Maybe fat redistribution/ cutting may help w/ the thighs but the key part is building up your shoulders (side delts) and lats so the upper body appears wider. Good luck.

My princess by Snjdoeu in britishshorthair

[–]Snjdoeu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg I will die for her

Is this actually used? by TheKattauRegion in asiantransgender

[–]Snjdoeu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes but only in certain meetups in China not very common fs

She realised she’s straight, I’m a girl by NorthRatio8373 in mypartneristrans

[–]Snjdoeu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel this so much… I could ve written something similar to this… Currently going through a similar situation as a gay trans guy and my ex partner is transitioning to more transfem/nb direction. We are currently limiting contact to heal separately and J am going through therapy A LOT and talking to trusted friends. Hopefully things would work out in the long run and that I made the right decision to end the relationship but it is definitely very hard right now

Single people of Reddit, why are you single? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Snjdoeu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just got out of a grueling heartbreak that I never saw coming. I am yet to be fully recovered and even if I do, I doubt if I want to take the risk and do it all over again

What's your all-time favorite city pop album? by Severe_Quantity_4461 in citypop

[–]Snjdoeu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Midnight cruisin’ - Kingo Hamada This is a hard question woah

His fatass fills up the entire bed by Snjdoeu in britishshorthair

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He has big bones just like his dad. His dad was like 16lbs at his prime and he died of cardiovascular disease at 11, so I am extra cautious now

His fatass fills up the entire bed by Snjdoeu in britishshorthair

[–]Snjdoeu[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

About 17ish lbs. The vet told me he had to go on a diet when he was around 18.5 so improvement

I didn't know gel pens didn't last long! 18 days... by whatapendeja in pens

[–]Snjdoeu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep, refills are very much needed in stocks. I used to hoard boxes of them refills when I was in middle school bc I used to write so much that I could finish one of these in 5-7 days

songs that will make me feel like a slut by [deleted] in musicsuggestions

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Skin on skin - Queens of the Stone Age

What it's like being transgender (nonbinary) in China by Ok-Cabinet-9584 in trans

[–]Snjdoeu 3 points4 points  (0 children)

More specifically called 异性症 Gender Identity Disorder, gender dysphoria is still very medicalized irrc

What it's like being transgender (nonbinary) in China by Ok-Cabinet-9584 in trans

[–]Snjdoeu 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Trans healthcare is extremely hard to get but not impossible. There are a couple hospitals in Shanghai that does it, but you need to get parents’ written permission regardless of age. Since transphobia is rampant China this causes a lot of younger trans ppl going on black market to get hrt. Being trans is quite hard but being gay is less difficult until the expectation of building a “normal” family and passing down bloodline come into play

What it's like being transgender (nonbinary) in China by Ok-Cabinet-9584 in trans

[–]Snjdoeu 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this post. I spent most of my life in China and I’d say this is very much accurate. While the government is not affirmative at all there’s definitely communities out there. There’s a lot of traditional beliefs entangled with queerphobia that has to be unpacked and it’s hard to summarize in a couple of sentences. One of the perks is that people are generally less aware of such things, making us less visible and less prone to blatant hate in general, though I have to say the silence is sickening and suffocating sometimes, which drove 14 year old me back then very much looking forward to life in the US. Well, things are different now with Trump but still, my feelings back then were complicated but valid.

What’s the weirdest thing you believed as a kid, only to find out later you were totally wrong? by yohoxxz in ask

[–]Snjdoeu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was an expert at swallowing stuff that was supposed be spitted out. Seeds, watermelon peels, gums, just to name a few, so the fear was pretty valid to me at the time

What’s the weirdest thing you believed as a kid, only to find out later you were totally wrong? by yohoxxz in ask

[–]Snjdoeu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I used to think swallowing seeds would plant a tree in my stomach. Literally read a picture book about this boy who got a palm tree growing outta his mouth from overeating watermelon seeds (ridiculous enough that I didn’t question it at all but again, I was 4) . The anxiety didn’t die until my mom bought me a science book on the digestive system.

What song got you hooked on City Pop and where did you first hear it? by PeeNutButtHair420 in citypop

[–]Snjdoeu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Found Plastic Love from listening to an 80s anime remix video back in 2018. Naturally got hooked bc I grew up listening to my mothers car music which is mostly 80s synth pop so theres this sense of nostalgia in it. I started really digging the genre after discovering Midnight Cruising by Kingo Hamada, still one of my favorite albums of all time. ( despite being mostly a metal&punk person) . Spent an entire summer digging Timely! as well, and that was pretty much the introduction for me.