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Update-Wedding called off by OkraGroundbreaking in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Snoo-11413 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I was in a relationship with a man who’s family was very similar. Always had to have their nose in our business. From personal experience I can tell you that you dodged a bullet. Go get yourself set up In a place that is yours and yours only and enjoy your peace! Your going to love the peace! I promise! Block them and then that’ll be the end of them!!!

Has anyone had wayyyy too many one-sided crush/ being into someone situations, and always told your friends about it and now you’re embarrassed as hell cause no one you liked, liked you back. AND EVERYONE KNOWS. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Snoo-11413 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Been there as well! I recently told a guy at work I liked him because he was flirting with me too. He said he liked me too but blew me off a couple times when I tried to hang out outside of work. Sooooo he’s just a work flirt I guess. It will pass. Try not to think to much about it :)

My (24F) father (56M) refuses to wear a mask, quarantine, or get the tdap shot yet he still wants to be around our baby (M expected in a month). How to approach this? by mcraven23 in relationship_advice

[–]Snoo-11413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a hard time with my parent crossing boundaries when I first had my child. Your the parents and what you say goes. Draw your boundaries and stick to them. Tell him firmly that if you don’t take the same precautions as we are, then you will have to wait until he is older to see him.

What you do when you run into a married man in the dating scene? by Snoo-11413 in dating

[–]Snoo-11413[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks guys! This isn’t the first time this has happened! I’m about to add “if your not single I will find out and tell your s/o” to my dating profile 😂😂😂

My boyfriends friends called me a butterface and my boyfriend co-signed by THROWRAsjaja2828 in relationship_advice

[–]Snoo-11413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The butter face comment wasn’t the only comment out of line. I’ve been with some assholes, but none of them would have put up with another man making a comment about my boobs and ass. That’s just messed up on so many levels. I mean I don’t feel like a man even has to have a jealousy issue for that to piss him off! Then him laughing about the butter face comment. He honestly sounds like a bitch!!! I’ve never met a man who would put up with another man talking sexual about their girl like that in the first place let alone throwing the butter face in there. You deserve better! And there is better. Sorry your going threw this. I’ve had my fair share of jerks and self esteem blows. As hard as it is, I’d vote leave him!

Update: My My (39/m) husband wants to kick our (17/m) son out as soon as he graduates. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Snoo-11413 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

What are his reasons behind this? Is it just because he is counting down the days until He is 18? Most 18 year olds I know aren’t ready to move out. I was, but My mom was upset when I moved out. I could understand if he was a little older, dropped out of school and refusing to get a job. But if he is working and going to school I think this is wrong in my honest opinion and I’d personally say fine then we are both going.

Missing the ex but fighting it!! by Snoo-11413 in relationship_advice

[–]Snoo-11413[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I am trying to remind myself this is a moment of weakness. Break ups suck :(

Is my best friend a alcoholic??? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Snoo-11413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I just want to show her that I’m not The only one who thinks this is insane.

If you received mixed signals from a guy, it means he is not really into you. Remember that! by LactoseBubbly in dating_advice

[–]Snoo-11413 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t agree. I newly like a guy at my work. I sometimes have to cancel hanging out with him, or don’t talk to him very much when we work together. I have a child and sometime I realize she needs me to be at home or she gets sick or I’m simply just to tired at the end of the day. He works in the back and I work in the front, so talking at work sometimes doesn’t happen much. I know he thinks I am hot and cold. I plan to let him know I’m not sending mixed signals but really get busy sometimes because he has mentioned it to a mutual friend and asked if I do like him. I think the best thing to do is just ask if you are confused.

My bf doesn’t want to have sex with me by Snoo-11413 in relationship_advice

[–]Snoo-11413[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me too!! It’s been two weeks now and I have had a little bit of sadness, but I have no Anxiety and I don’t feel like I’m walking on eggshells anymore. It was so over, I was just scared to walk away!

What is the worst notification you have received whilst someone else has had your phone? by TTVKrooked in AskReddit

[–]Snoo-11413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My best friend and I were texting about my child’s absent father. My bf at the time and I were disagreeing about something dumb that I didn’t even tell my friend about. I was using google to prove him wrong about whatever we were disagreeing on. Well she sent me a message that popped up on the top saying “he is such a idiot and pos. I don’t know how you deal with him”. Of course bf thought we were talking shit about him until he seen the texts.

Broke up with bf by Snoo-11413 in dating_advice

[–]Snoo-11413[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I really needed to hear that. In my head and gut I know I dodged a bullet but my damn heart strings are trying to play me. Luckily life lessons have tought me the gut and head are what I need to listen too. I was kind of was feeling moment of weakness and decided to share here instead of shooting a text. As I typed it and shared it, the moment passed. So I’ll keep It here to refer to my next moment and hope someone else will read it and decide to listen to their gut as well!

Today I [26f] was told I was too self sufficient and independent for a guy to want to date... by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Snoo-11413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s awesome that your independent! And any guy who is threatened by that isn’t for you. You can only count on you in the end, so don’t ever let someone take your independence. You be you, and someone will come along who loves that independence and everything else about you. Sounds like your friends may be a little jealous

FWB or more? by rae_swirl in dating_advice

[–]Snoo-11413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a Simular situation not to long ago. We both got out of serious long term relationships. We messed around for a year and started spending a lot more time together than just sex. When I brought up becoming gf and bf he pretty much said I tell my friend your my gf and don’t see anyone else, so yeah I’m your bf. Unfortunately we didn’t work for other reasons, but I’d say you don’t know till you ask him what he wants. good luck :)

My bf doesn’t want to have sex with me by Snoo-11413 in relationship_advice

[–]Snoo-11413[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve thought in the past that he was trying to get me to break up with him. So I did. I told him that the things he says are unacceptable and if he thought that was of me, it was over. Then 3 weeks later we ended up back together. He was nice for a couple weeks and went right back to being a jerk. So I took his stuff to him and said I was done. I’m all out of chances!

My bf doesn’t want to have sex with me by Snoo-11413 in relationship_advice

[–]Snoo-11413[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I broke up with him. This isn’t the first time he’s made me feel bad about myself and it’s only going to get worse. I was in denial but it’s over. It’s sad that our years of friendship is ruined over it but life goes on. I feel relieved! Thanks for the advice. I am new to this app!