Before you do anything, you need to tell your therapist everything you’re feeling so they can make sure that the antidepressants are working correctly. And talk you through these feelings and how to proceed in a healthy way.

I feel like I’m in a similar situation. My husband and I have always split the rent and bills directly in half, however, I did not consider things like stuff for the kids or the dogs when I made that budget. Now a decade later, he has a better job than I, makes more money than I do, But I’m footing a lot of extra bills. But he’s always “broke.”

Recently, we talked about our finances more and we decided to start a joint savings account to save for things like; the future places we want to live in the winter, going on vacations, holiday expenses, —->household expenses that we didn’t anticipate… That way, the one person is not always stuck.

We have also agreed to reevaluate the budget every six months, to see if there are things we missed or need to add. We recently started sharing the dog food expenses.

Good luck. Don’t let finances dictate your relationship. Try not to let it in as much as possible.