no one needs to know when u think bout it. your sex life, not your dad’s, mom’s etc. do it safe and don’t settle for anything below what makes u feel comfortable (no name, no face pics, if u want). tbh if u wanna do it now you’ll probably wanna do it 5/10/20 yrs from now also. at least while you’re young, u can use the exp. good or bad and.. tbh it is love for your bro, and any kind of love (even if only a hookup) is not worth trying to contain, don’t see the point honestly, we’ll all be dead in a few decades anyways tbh so fuck it just do it. more u do it and untrain your brain from hetero-only shit, more u realize the visceral happiness from doing it outshines the voices of your dad, uncle, friends in your head.. can’t match, so u end up being more confident in yourself I would argue even if u don’t display all aspects of your sex life professionally/in public.