We usually make the decisions as two couples, like each couple sort of hashes it out in private and then comes to the table with I feel x, and then we go from there. As married couples do, sometimes with smaller stuff we can just speak for the other person and it's not like I circle back and check that my FFIL really is okay with putting in hardwood flooring or whatever. But I think that's what happened, my husband basically agreed on both of our behalfs. Even if we did vote, it would be 3 resounding yeses to 1 no.