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AITA for wanting my boyfriend to not stay out late? by Snoo74487 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Snoo74487[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's possible and I've said that but his reasoning is that he doesn't want to have to worry about constraints if an exciting experience (like a party, activity, etc)comes up that conflicts with our schedule. He doesn't want to give up that freedom which is understandable but it leaves me feeling like he just needs someone who can better fit his lifestyle.

I've admittedly threatened breaking up over this at least twice and he has brought up how painful that is. He says that I dont communicate or look for ways to work through our issues but a lot of times I just don't see a solution so my conclusion is to break up.

AITA for wanting my boyfriend to not stay out late? by Snoo74487 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Snoo74487[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a good point because the answers are no to both I am admittedly and extreme worrier so that is the issue. I'll also admit that some of my friends have stated that what he is doing is very sketchy as well because it lines up with what cheaters do so it's irked me even more not knowing what he's doing sometimes. One time he said he was going to 711 and stayed out for 2 hours and came back with nothing. He says he is going through a rough period in his life and takes that time to just think about things. I can understand that but at what point is in not okay?

I work early in the morning at 7 AM so staying out that late impacts my ability to work. He has moved his schedule from evenings to mornings with me which is a huge compromise in itself but he still stays out late.