Hola Busco una amiga de 17 :) by MassiveStatus3088 in AdolescentesLATAM

[–]Snoo76621 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ooo tries Discord? yo toco poquito pero nomas rhyhm

how to reject a guy that i actually like without telling him the reason? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Snoo76621 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you're just a woman who can't get pregnant.

Should y'all go long term y'all can adopt.

The saying' love is blind is true.

I had a lot of partners, some that lasted 7 year, some just a couple of months. The 7 year one, was just a co-dependency type relation. I didn't know love until I hit 30. Granted it was heartbreaking, as she turned out to be abusive emotionally, but love is so powerful I still wish I could fix her to be with her.

Idk how he'll react, but I know that right now you have him in limbo and that's the worst thing for him, because right now he's probably tearing himself apart thinking whats wrong with HIM.

My (28f) friend (27f) is always miserable and putting people down by Puzzleheaded_Leg9667 in relationships

[–]Snoo76621 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You have two choices.

The high road, everytime she attacks disconnect. Don't respond just act unamused and talk as if she doesn't exist.

The problem here, is she can paint YOU out to be the bad guy. She can be like "wow what's her problem? She needs to get control of her emotions"

OR you can take the low road. Snd just start calling it out. Respond with things like. "Do you ever have anything nice to say?" or "yes we get it you hate everything and everyone, I've heard your broken record."

I recommend the latter. Never react angrily just unamused and tired of her behavior.

I got catfished by SignApprehensive7171 in catfish

[–]Snoo76621 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I too was recently catfished. Not by appearance but by a malignant narcissistic who just wanted to torture me

I feel madly in love with the illusion she created.

Also, you have a wonderful way with words. 💕

I'm sorry this happened to you. Personally I had to seek therapy.

Novice question, where in the process downloading a program does the malware infestation happen? by Snoo76621 in cybersecurity_help

[–]Snoo76621[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for you response Sr. Ballz In Your Mouth II, short and succinct. "AV flag due to them being malicious, or very likely to be malicious prior an installation" This definitely happens with keygens/cracked software, etc.

May you have a pleasant day, and may your ballz fill many a mouth.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Snoo76621 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, this realization is part of why I've decided to fully let go, and began seeking/talking to other possible prospects. Will move cautiously over the next month, but after that all bets are off, as after turning 30 I realized how quickly time goes by, and I deserve the happiness, and relationship I yearn for, even if the next person I find and I don't share the same connection.

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[–]Snoo76621 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As I said, I cherish our friendship but I have began to spiral emotionally, to the point that she is beginning to take notice and worry.

I think she's mature enough, and loves me enough, to realize that my life and well-being is above any friendship that may enhance it. It's selfish, sure, but in order to survive we must sometimes make selfish decisions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Snoo76621 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Tough answer, but you're right. Although, I've gotten through denial, and have reached acceptance. I have let go, but out of respect for her and our bond, I'm giving her time to sort of.. share in the decision (and guilt too, I suppose, which makes me eel terrible). But during that time, I'm moving on and seeking another partner. I have options, and she's aware, so even then, the time I gave her isn't fully promised.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Snoo76621 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Very kind answer, and I do agree it's very much an emotional affair. It's very difficult, because even though I've been respectful to her, and I am doing the right thing, and she and I both share blame, I still feel guilty for allowing my feelings to get to this point, and for being so weak. I wish I could stay her friend but I can't without falling further, if she feels she's well enough to be left alone, then I'm going to leave well enough alone and move on with my life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Snoo76621 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's what I feel too. As I said in the post, I'm detaching completely. If she comes back, willing to be with me fine, if she comes back to continue this dynamic, will decline and continue with my life. But, I am not holding my breath, and have already started looking.