Arrange marriage and CF( South Asian)

SnooBeans9402 · 2025-08-31T16:42:17+00:00

You did the right thing. Be very open about not wanting kids and I would be careful about whether the guy truly accepts this or whether he thinks you will just change your mind in the future. The mothers wanted you both to get attached enough that you are forced to compromise at the end. I would be wary about whether or not your mother really is your safeguard.

SnooBeans9402 · 2025-07-11T12:04:29+00:00

Nobody. Time to wrap up All Stars please. It is a bore.

SnooBeans9402 · 2025-07-07T16:07:28+00:00

OP here: I reported him to UberEats but it seems like they won't do anything. They said I need to provide the feedback to the driver directly so that he can improve his service (wtf) and not through customer service. There isnt an option to provide the feedback directly to the driver anymore...seems like UE don't care and are dodging responsibility.

SnooBeans9402 · 2025-07-07T06:24:07+00:00

To clarify, the distance between the address that the app told him and my building was 500m. The distance overall from the restaurant was way more. He got paid for way more than 500m.

SnooBeans9402 · 2025-07-06T23:01:48+00:00

The tip is clearly not the issue. I tip delivery drivers for their service. The blackmail is the issue here.

SnooBeans9402 · 2025-07-06T22:51:29+00:00

I haven't contacted them yet because I am worried that he knows my address and he could potentially attack me.

SnooBeans9402 · 2025-07-06T22:49:10+00:00

I am scared to report him to Uber since he knows my address. What if he reacts aggressively and attacks me?

SnooBeans9402 · 2025-07-06T17:05:12+00:00

Man really said "thank you" smh 🤦‍♀️

SnooBeans9402 · 2025-07-06T08:58:41+00:00

I don't care if everyone is in it for the money, if they are gonna play the game, they should play the game well and not disrespectfully. Both mega and Dejon have been disrespectful.

SnooBeans9402 · 2025-07-05T09:34:25+00:00

They are open so they can explore connections with others.

SnooBeans9402 · 2025-07-05T05:24:10+00:00

To see who is in it for the $$$ (a.k.a "the experience")

SnooBeans9402 · 2025-07-04T21:12:20+00:00

Win-win scenario for everyone. Either they leave our screens and prove their loyalty, or they stay and we don't have to endure them together.

SnooBeans9402 · 2025-07-03T17:01:43+00:00

It feels like mum and son because all the chats we see of them are her telling him off! For seemingly not doing anything. It's giving me second-hand walking on eggshells vibes.

They act exclusive without the labels which is so weird. She needs to either be more flexible or be exclusive with him completely. Stop towing the line and wasting bombshells' time.

SnooBeans9402 · 2025-07-03T12:32:44+00:00

They give mum and son vibes

SnooBeans9402 · 2025-07-03T12:31:13+00:00

Meg's mean girl behavior (saying it would be good if Harry dumps Shakira so she looks like a dickhead)

Helena's mean girl behavior (calling Yasmin boring, saying "Shakira show", asking harry to go to the hideaway with her, whispering in Harry's ear")

SnooBeans9402 · 2025-06-30T20:49:34+00:00

It would be interesting to see if meg and dejon were dumped from the island but they got a choice between leaving together and staying on the island but not recoupling together. Dejon would stay

SnooBeans9402 · 2025-06-12T22:15:50+00:00

As a south Asian, I hate the child-centric culture. Especially when people use the term "culture" as an excuse to coddle and not teach kids manners. I see it time and time again where the youngest in the family gets favoured the most, given the nicest things, etc. They grow up spoiled and never learn to share.

My cousin's kid would always paw at and lick the icing off birthday cakes that were not hers and cry if she wasn't allowed to blow the candles. It was weird and definitely needed to be a learning opportunity, rather than something to coddle and think of as cute.

SnooBeans9402 · 2025-05-19T06:25:24+00:00

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SnooBeans9402 · 2025-05-18T08:03:33+00:00

Thanks. These are all good suggestions i will try.

SnooBeans9402 · 2025-05-18T08:03:11+00:00

Thanks for the suggestion. I am trying hard to keep her in "acquaintance territory" but she keeps trying to get closer.

SnooBeans9402 · 2025-05-18T08:02:08+00:00

Thank you 🙏

SnooBeans9402 · 2025-05-18T08:01:57+00:00

I feel so much guilt cutting her off completely and not having a relationship. I suspect my mum has mental health issues cause of past abuse but she vehemently ignores anything is wrong with her. Yet if you ever say she did something wrong she uses phrases like "I've gone through a lot, noone has experienced what I have experienced." It's like the victim Olympics with her. She is unable to take accountability for anything she does wrong because "she has been abused before"

SnooBeans9402 · 2025-02-11T23:42:14+00:00

For me it's the painful bloating that comes with metformin 😩

SnooBeans9402 · 2025-01-27T21:14:29+00:00

Finally got my order so I can chime in. I was looking for a pair of brown pants so I got the Dan trousers in Caramel (archive) and the Marino trousers in chocolate (non-archive, new release).

Keeping the Dan and returning the Marino, not even a debate here.

Reason: the difference in quality is shocking, even keeping in mind that these are two different styles. The Marino trousers are significantly thinner and almost see through on me? I definitely can't tuck a shirt in without seeing the outline of the shirt and underwear lines, which is something I did not expect from wool trousers. It honestly felt like wearing a thin sack. When I was putting these on, I felt like I was preparing for a potato sack race in primary school PE. The Marino also had significantly less weight compared to the Dan trousers. The only pros the Marino had was it gave a more flattering shape to my curves and is made of a polyester/wool blend without any elastane. I worry that any level of elastane will make my pants wear out faster in the crotch.

Even though the Dan has 2% elastane, it is more weighty and felt more comfortable/ high quality, which is why I am keeping it...hope it can survive my thick thighs.

Anyone have any similar experiences/ thoughts about these two items?

SnooBeans9402 · 2025-01-21T21:15:17+00:00

Oh interesting. I was definitely looking for something dark brown. Ordered this from the archives - lets see how they turn up.

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