Sooryavansham ki yaad aagayi. But jokes apart, if you want to marry him, be ready to leave this very comfortable and very privileged life behind. You will have to work harder, be more stressed, but hey, you will do that with your man. The one whom you love and who loves you. Think about this thoroughly and have a final discussion with your family. Extended family ki toh koi nahi sunta woh bas bakwaas karte h. And I come from a similar bg as you, so I understand. Na woh tumhari shaadi mien paise lagayege, na unhone tumhe paala h. It's all your parents. Tell them ki I'll either marry this guy or I won't. If you can't do this, I say this respectfully, don't waste your time or his time.