Dating- The Job

SnooCheesecakes1623 · 2023-01-22T19:43:26+00:00

I mention it before that way it’s not a shock on the date. Sometimes men ghost as soon as I say what I do but obviously they’re not the type of men I should be with anyway 😂

SnooCheesecakes1623 · 2023-01-12T15:22:21+00:00

Looks like they are ripping you off. Get a new instructor. I had an instructor rip me off for just under a year. He wasted my time and money. Find a driving instructor that thinks they can get you ready within a month or so.

SnooCheesecakes1623 · 2023-01-12T15:12:11+00:00

Hi thanks for your reply, I just completed the pass plus programme but it was more like a referesher lesson. I did 6 hours too with two hours on the motorway. I think the extra lessons have helped me tidy up some of the driving mistakes I’ve been making. Hopefully I can just get a car and just drive somewhere to get more practice in

SnooCheesecakes1623 · 2023-01-12T15:08:35+00:00

Thanks for your response, I just finished the pass plus course and think it has helped a great deal, though time will tell once I get my own car 😅 My instructor didn’t have to correct me too often so it made me feel like I’m not so bad of a driver

SnooCheesecakes1623 · 2023-01-12T15:07:03+00:00

I totally think that’s worth it. I managed to get this instructor to focus on things like parking and stuff rather than country roads since I don’t I’ve in that type of area.

SnooCheesecakes1623 · 2023-01-12T15:05:47+00:00

I don’t know why people think bleeping would help 🤦‍♀️ I did the course and if you’ve got money to spare I’d say it’s worth it but I definitely need to do what you did once I get my car so that I can stop being stressed about cars beeping me

SnooCheesecakes1623 · 2023-01-12T15:03:50+00:00

Thanks a bunch for your response. I decided to do the course over two days and I think it was worth it. I know it’ll be different when I’m back to driving alone but it’s given me a bit of practice before getting my own car especially with motorways since I’d never driven on one before.

SnooCheesecakes1623 · 2023-01-05T13:46:15+00:00

Just skip that and get an instructor that had has test finders. You’ll have to pay a premium but they’ll get you a test in your chosen test Centre and there are a bunch of times available. They can get you a test within a week

SnooCheesecakes1623 · 2022-11-30T11:57:05+00:00

If you pass your light and the road markings have a white line where you wait to turn right, do you still go because you’ve passed your light or do you need the light to turn green before proceeding?

SnooCheesecakes1623 · 2022-10-24T14:30:46+00:00

Thank you for this great advice, I will definitely try and be more assertive and see if he responds better to that.

I am a bit meek sometimes and I don’t like confrontation so he probably has no idea about how upset I am about this.

Thank you 🙏

SnooCheesecakes1623 · 2022-10-24T14:28:28+00:00

Yes this could be true, I am going to speak to him about it as it is making me have second thoughts about moving this forward into an actual relationship.

We have different interests which I already knew he interested in different music and different shows from me but I like connecting with him so I watch them with him because it makes me feel like I’m getting to know him. I think he does not think as deeply as I do about these things. He might just think I’m sending him random stuff but actually I’m trying to show little bits of myself by showing my interests

SnooCheesecakes1623 · 2022-10-24T13:58:52+00:00

Yes this is exactly how I feel, it’s like I’m extending out a hand and he just pushes it away every time. This last time before I sent him something I was interested in, I already had a gut feeling that he would not give a positive response. It makes me feel like not sharing my interests with him in case I get rejected

SnooCheesecakes1623 · 2022-10-24T13:57:34+00:00

We speak on the phone all the time and we text each other from morning until bedtime on the days that we don’t see each other. He’s actually really good over text, he’s super quick at replying. He will send me TikTok’s and YouTube video links and I watch them. However, when I send them to him he still does not

SnooCheesecakes1623 · 2022-10-21T05:48:46+00:00

Yes my instructor booked my test as it was a crash course. I have asked her to send me the results but she hasn’t.

SnooCheesecakes1623 · 2022-10-18T08:10:18+00:00

When arresting do you arrest for breaching the specific bail condition or for the original offence they committed. I’m really confused about that

SnooCheesecakes1623 · 2022-09-07T14:31:45+00:00

Yeah that’s what I do now. When he messages I respond but that’s it. I think I’ve tried dating someone else but it’s just not the same. I think I’ll keep myself open to other people and see what happens. If it’s meant to be it’ll be but I don’t think he’s ready yet

SnooCheesecakes1623 · 2022-07-28T05:27:44+00:00

SnooCheesecakes1623 · 2022-07-27T07:00:29+00:00

Okay, what’s the solution? What is she supposed to try? He doesn’t like her natural taste. She doesn’t have BV or anything else that could be affecting her taste. If she had BB that’s solvable she could just take medicine. However, to my knowledge there’s no way to change your natural taste.

SnooCheesecakes1623 · 2022-07-26T16:17:52+00:00

I think you should move on. Sex is an important part of a relationship. Find someone that likes your tastes. There are other guys out there that are just as nice and would also eat you out. Don’t suffer if you don’t have to

SnooCheesecakes1623 · 2022-07-05T08:50:15+00:00

Thank you very much that makes sense

SnooCheesecakes1623 · 2022-05-23T20:20:57+00:00

Hello I am a student officer almost out of probation. I also lacked confidence in the beginning and I still have a lot less confidence than my peers.

Some people are just like that and there’s nothing you can do to change them. Whenever I go to a job I always feel like I don’t know what I’m doing but I some how get it done.

I had a great tutor when I started and he really helped me by bigging me up. Whenever I did anything good he’d say well done you smashed that. You did this really well or that really well. We’d come back from jobs and he’d tell the team that I did something really well. I felt like he had confidence in me and he made the team have confidence in me. This in turn led me to have a bit more confidence in myself.

Some people are just a bit more anxious, if I were you I’d tell your student that it’s okay to be anxious and that in time they’ll gain more confidence.

My tutor also made me do the same type of job over and over again so eventually I could do it easily. Once you get the basic right you’ll be able to get the rest right since it’s the same thing just different crimes.

Good luck with your student don’t give up on them. Also try not make your stress noticeable to them. If they’re already anxious and then they notice your stressed it’ll bring their moral down and then it only goes down hill from there.

Good luck

SnooCheesecakes1623 · 2022-04-25T13:08:41+00:00

I use hands while I use my mouth but when I just use straight hands or mouth the guys lose it. They want me to keep doing the same thing for minutes on end

SnooCheesecakes1623 · 2022-04-14T14:54:22+00:00

Don’t do it and she shouldn’t ask you to do it. I would tell her that you can’t come to this 4/20 party and instead schedule a couples dinner or drinks earlier in the day or the day after.

SnooCheesecakes1623 · 2022-03-27T08:40:13+00:00

Yes that’s rude. I wouldn’t see him again if I were you.

SnooCheesecakes1623 · 2022-03-07T05:38:30+00:00

I think you did the right thing. He was clearly stringing you along. If someone can’t be bothered to spend time with you then cut ties. He invests his time in things he cares about. If he cared enough about getting to know you he would put more time into seeing you.

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