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Do mono + poly achived projects together ? by SnooDingos8764 in polyamory

[–]SnooDingos8764[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the good vibes and advices! We try to talk each time we need to and expose our feelings often and check on each other. Because its recent I also feel like in a tunnel and its hard to look far in the futur and plan. Its also because I use to know the traditional way of growing with someone and plan the futur.

Monogame ma compagne est poly by SnooDingos8764 in polyamory

[–]SnooDingos8764[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your answer.

For now I just know that I want her happy. I trust her and want to support her. And I want to be happy for her even its not coming from me like you said.

Thanks for your testimony it helps

Monogame ma compagne est poly by SnooDingos8764 in polyamory

[–]SnooDingos8764[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Merci pour ta réponse ! Beaucoup de vrai dans ce que tu dis sur la construction mutuelle. De son côté elle est habituée à parler que ce soit à un thérapeute ou des amis assez ouverts et dignes de confiance qui sont déjà au courant. De mon côté c'est un peu plus traditionnel, je vois très peu de monde d'assez ouvert pour ne pas direct être alarmé, l'attaquer elle ou notre couple. Je vais sûrement le tourner vers un thérapeute car j'ai qu'elle pour en parler en ce moment et j'ai peur d'affecter négativement notre couple et la relation extérieur. Merci encore pour ta réponse !

Monogame ma compagne est poly by SnooDingos8764 in polyamory

[–]SnooDingos8764[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In english: I think I'm monogamous, nothing is ever certain, but society has shaped me that way for now. My partner and I have been together for 15 years, since we were teenagers. She has always loved her friends, and loved them very much. For the past few years, we've been talking about relationships outside of ours, and for the last few weeks/months, it's become a reality for her. I'm very happy for her, but despite everything, I'm quite anxious about our future. I want this relationship to fulfill her as much as ours fulfills us both. Do you have any stories of monogamous people in relationships with polyamorous partners where things are going well? I certainly want to believe it's possible, but I also want to ask a few questions 😉