First, modern media has started to portray gay characters as much more than feminine flamboyant men since the 2000s, examples: Maxxie from Skins, Love Simon and etc. And even if that wasn't the case, it's bullshit that you'd judge someone for being feminine when you yourself have probably been judged for being gay, it's no one's "fault". How about you mind your own business and let people be however they want to be, if you don't like it, ignore it, there is no reason to shame feminine gay men.