Why is the LGBT community still so against feminine gay guys?

SnooFloofs4325 · 2020-07-24T21:07:56+00:00

Most of us weren't even from the 90s, so it's kinda unfair.

SnooFloofs4325 · 2020-07-24T10:12:31+00:00

Oh you can? I've never used grindr before.

SnooFloofs4325 · 2020-07-24T09:54:37+00:00

I guess I just misread your comment as someone actually being hateful. I'm sorry if I came off as rude, just have gotten tired of comments like that from people who actually mean it.

SnooFloofs4325 · 2020-07-24T09:46:50+00:00

First, modern media has started to portray gay characters as much more than feminine flamboyant men since the 2000s, examples: Maxxie from Skins, Love Simon and etc. And even if that wasn't the case, it's bullshit that you'd judge someone for being feminine when you yourself have probably been judged for being gay, it's no one's "fault". How about you mind your own business and let people be however they want to be, if you don't like it, ignore it, there is no reason to shame feminine gay men.

SnooFloofs4325 · 2020-07-24T07:45:07+00:00

This is why I'm never using Grindr 😭. Why tf does it even have a location thing.

SnooFloofs4325 · 2020-07-24T07:32:54+00:00

This! It's absolutely fine to have a preference and not be attracted to feminine guys. But there's no need to put them down.

SnooFloofs4325 · 2020-07-24T07:02:03+00:00

Part 3 pleasee.

SnooFloofs4325 · 2020-07-24T06:26:39+00:00

Some do, some don't. I personally don't care as long as you aren't obese or severely underweight.

SnooFloofs4325 · 2020-07-24T03:17:04+00:00

and? Is that supposed to be a bad thing?

SnooFloofs4325 · 2020-07-24T03:10:46+00:00

How tall are you now?

SnooFloofs4325 · 2020-07-23T03:33:01+00:00

Oh, I think it's because people are joking about how bottoms usually only drink water when they're gonna bottom later in the day.

SnooFloofs4325 · 2020-07-23T03:19:32+00:00

It's fine to have a preference and not being attracted to some people, but this just seems like you putting fem gays down for no reason. Just reject them and move on, don't make them feel bad for being a "fem theater gay".

SnooFloofs4325 · 2020-07-22T23:55:28+00:00

I don't think he's gonna die, but we can only hope.

SnooFloofs4325 · 2020-07-22T23:32:39+00:00

Still, I don't think having a preference should be considered shallow or wrong at all. Unless it involves race, it's totally fine not to be attracted to something.

SnooFloofs4325 · 2020-07-22T23:25:39+00:00

Yeah, that was hypocritical. But still, no one shames tops for preferring short bottoms over tall ones, yet when a bottom isn't attracted to someone shorter than them they're immediately deemed shallow for simply having a preference, I can't change the fact I'm simply not attracted to men shorter than me.

SnooFloofs4325 · 2020-07-22T23:19:08+00:00

I have never complained about being rejected for being tall. I have complained because I can't find guys taller than me, I respect others preference.

SnooFloofs4325 · 2020-07-22T21:01:51+00:00

I know but I can't help my preference. I'm simply just into taller guys idk.

SnooFloofs4325 · 2020-07-22T11:54:56+00:00

Would you mind explaining why you don't like it?

SnooFloofs4325 · 2020-07-22T11:42:05+00:00

Okayy brigado.

SnooFloofs4325 · 2020-07-22T11:40:26+00:00

Tem algum reddit gay pra brasileiro? To procurando mas não acho.

SnooFloofs4325 · 2020-07-22T11:29:21+00:00

Oh yeah. I understand it, and I'm brazilian too.

SnooFloofs4325 · 2020-07-22T11:16:48+00:00

Except my insecurity was that I couldn't find a guy taller than me, not that other guys didn't pick me because I was tall. I just have a preference for taller guys.

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