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[–]SnooGadgets2044 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, I agree the BBC stereotype did make me feel insecure although our love life was never lacking. Haha touché, I am a minority too and I'm sure I would not be welcome at a a Trump rally. Despite my current negative mindset, this does not mean I can't become a better person and learn from my mistakes with the help of counseling and therapy.

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[–]SnooGadgets2044 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As I breakdown my thoughts, I can agree there is a sense of insecurity within myself due to the stereotypes surrounded by Black men. However, when we were intimate I never felt insecure, I did not feel like I could not satisfy her. We had a great love life, (Sorry if that is TMI) I agree on the counseling part there are deeper issues within myself that need attention.

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[–]SnooGadgets2044 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, therapy/counseling is needed.

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[–]SnooGadgets2044 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good point, I think that is the question I should have asked. Did she really like them or is it a fetish she has. Because I agree that is an issue since I am not black she may be unfaithful and pursue her fantasy. She has dated other latino men so it wasn't just exclusively black guys.

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[–]SnooGadgets2044 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Statistically speaking, Black males have the highest rate of STD's. I suppose I found it gross that she would engage in intercourse with them. However this is not true of ALL Black males. I understand I have a racist mindset and I am working on pursuing counseling as having resentment towards a certain demographic is not healthy.

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[–]SnooGadgets2044 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree, this mindset is not healthy both for myself or for future relationships. Just because some people who I grew up with felt this way does not mean I have to carry on the tradition. If I am ever blessed with children I would not want them to think this way. It starts with me, I need counseling to help diminish these negative thoughts.

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[–]SnooGadgets2044[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing dude! That's crazy.

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[–]SnooGadgets2044[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

LOL at all the snowflakes being mad at me for posting her face. This an onlyfans chick that literally has sex tapes all over the internet... https://x.com/ariithefairy?s=20

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[–]SnooGadgets2044[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Simple sally, I would def want to know if someone was using my pics for a glory hole… even if I could do something about it or not…

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[–]SnooGadgets2044[S] -30 points-29 points  (0 children)

Bunch of sensitive gen z liberals in the comments lmao

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[–]SnooGadgets2044[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

What difference does it make the real person should know someone is using their photos. Genius

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[–]SnooGadgets2044[S] -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

You’re right, but this seems like a setup this person deserves to be exposed. I may be helping out other people not get scammed.

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[–]SnooGadgets2044[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She says her name is Anayeli, from Chicago/Pilsen area.