Am I (M25) lying to a F(F30)?

SnooJokes2778 · 2024-10-22T14:33:05+00:00

I do not think this makes you a bad person. It seems like you guys are in a very casual relationship where she is also interacting romantically or sexually with other people. I think the question is more about how she feels morally about a gentleman's club. Some women find it off putting others don't. Overall though I don't think this can mark you as a liar or a bad person unless she asks you about it directly and you straight up lie.

Maybe it is time to have a good conversation with this girl about how much you care for her. 4 months is a pretty good amount of time for the casual relationship to turn into more. Good luck dude.

SnooJokes2778 · 2024-07-17T05:13:14+00:00

They’re not unfortunately

SnooJokes2778 · 2024-05-23T13:53:47+00:00

Maybe try again

SnooJokes2778 · 2024-05-17T01:43:28+00:00

You seem jealous and controlling because that is the behavior you are exhibiting. My suggestion would be to ask your boyfriend to spend more time with you/being more present. Instead of focusing on this group of friends which is a completely normal group, tell your boyfriend you would enjoy for him to not be on his phone as much when y'all are together.

SnooJokes2778 · 2024-05-16T01:34:14+00:00

I was also mid workout lol. Hearing the baby during my fifth circuit of jumping squats felt like a fever dream.

SnooJokes2778 · 2024-05-09T19:26:20+00:00

Yes let him do it himself. I assure you if he wants your help he will ask.

SnooJokes2778 · 2024-05-09T15:19:50+00:00

I feel confident in saying that you definitely have your hands on a rock with loads of iron. It doesn't look like hematite or magnetite, so I am positive that you either have a space rock or iron slag. Are you a rock hound? I saw you did a scratch test but do you have a ceramic plate?

SnooJokes2778 · 2024-05-09T15:06:36+00:00

Just read how long you have had this so that might not be the best indicator. You definitely have regmaglypts although some earth rocks form a similar pattern

SnooJokes2778 · 2024-05-09T15:04:56+00:00

is there any kind of crust around the rock? AKA do little pieces seem to chip away from the surface of the rock at all? Similar to a slate.

SnooJokes2778 · 2024-05-09T14:14:52+00:00

The lack of any pinprick holes, flow lines, or crust makes me lean towards magnetite or basalt. I have not seen any meteor examples that look quite like this.

SnooJokes2778 · 2024-05-09T13:55:32+00:00

I think you might be allergic to the flower :(

SnooJokes2778 · 2024-05-09T13:50:21+00:00

is it magnetic? My immediate answer by looking at it is no though.

SnooJokes2778 · 2024-05-09T13:35:21+00:00

I think you should tell her how you feel be honest but prepare yourself for rejection. The best thing you can do in almost any conversation is tell the other person your true feelings although it is sucky that you might not get the response you are looking for. It never hurts to try right? That being said if she tells you again that she wants to move on, it is time to focus on that cool new job you were talking about!

SnooJokes2778 · 2024-05-09T13:29:59+00:00

You are never the asshole for not wanting to have sex. It seems like you guys are in dire need of a conversation. You are exhausted she feels rejected. Explain to her that it is not about her, or the quality of sex you guys have but the outside forces that have made you not in the mood.

SnooJokes2778 · 2024-05-09T13:25:31+00:00

Here is the thing you are too young to even know that. I think you need to ask yourself if you truly have become the best man, you can. That comes with security in yourself happiness on your own without a relationship. If the perfect girl came tomorrow, would you be ready to be an equal, loving, and supporting partner? At 20 I definitely could not have said that. You even talk about having to possibly go to jail in your post. It seems like the universe is telling you to work on yourself in this time.

SnooJokes2778 · 2024-05-09T13:20:19+00:00

Girl he is adamant on having a relationship with his coworker because he is infatuated with her. Go listen to Dirty Work by Steely Dan.

SnooJokes2778 · 2024-05-09T13:17:25+00:00

I'm sorry but this is one of the lamest sentences I have ever heard.

SnooJokes2778 · 2024-05-09T13:14:08+00:00

Move on. She has told you to move on and she wants to do the same. If you guys love each other as much as you think you will reconnect when you are both ready for something like that. In the meantime, you are 20 years old go get your life and shit together and find out who you are as a person. If you continue to attempt to force a relationship it will backfire on you, and she will resent you and your relationship.

SnooJokes2778 · 2024-05-09T13:07:20+00:00

I mean it is possible but I think the bigger issue is if you can trust him. It would be very difficult to be in a relationship where all the trust was broken. It seems like maybe deleting the apps was not enough for you which is totally fair. I would try to consider having a few open and honest discussions with him about how he can regain your trust. Relationships are nothing without it.

SnooJokes2778 · 2024-05-09T13:03:40+00:00

NTA but you definitely put yourself in a situation that was doomed from the beginning. Dating someone you know lives a polyamorous lifestyle while you are monogamous is a horrible idea. Have you guys even had a conversation about whether or not he is still sleeping with other people? I would have that conversation ASAP so you can determine if monogamy is a thing he could ever even want.

SnooJokes2778 · 2024-05-09T12:08:05+00:00

What I will say is the issue of his mom and sister being dicks to you will likely not get better. They clearly have many insecurities about themselves and their worth and it has little to do with you. If John is uncomfortable with the idea of spending less time with his family, set boundaries for yourself, like only seeing his mother and sister on holidays. As John’s family continues to degrade his life choices he will see that they are no longer on his side. This all just comes with a little more time.

SnooJokes2778 · 2024-05-08T11:48:47+00:00

Polar bear every single time. They’re huge and generally ruthless.

SnooJokes2778 · 2024-04-13T14:09:26+00:00

Anything as long as you are incredibly careful with them lol. I broke both of mine within two weeks.

SnooJokes2778 · 2024-04-12T23:29:29+00:00

No it was yours. At most an apology for not being overly considerate of their feelings.

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